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someone please help me b4 i cry :'(?
My bf, who just got out of the Navy to get custody of his son, is going through it with his babymama. He has to stay 500 ft away from her. The problem is that she lives within 500 ft of his whole family, his mom, grandmother (where he is staying, meaning he couldn't go home last night.), and his cousins. I had ONE missed call from him and a voicemail message that said call him back asap. I called him a million times, the county jail and hospitals. He finally calls me back and tells me what happened and I said so where are you at? and he said at his ex's house.
I understand that he called and I didn't answer. He only called once. He knows where I live at, and he has a car. He could have came and knocked (my mom would have let him stay here). (I'm pretty sure) he rode past my street to get to his ex's house. I'm kinda upset at myself for not answering, but then again, it seems like he didn't even try to contact me. If something is seriously wrong, I keep calling until I get an answer, and if I had a car, and I could go to the persons' house, I would.
So, do you think I have the right to be a little upset? If your bf/gf did that would you be mad?
Richard-You're an ***.
Richard-You're an ***.
Kitten, what don't understand?
i didnt literally call him a million times, and i understand what you mean by priorities. but im just hurt he didnt come to me, he went to his ex (not his babymama, another ex)
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- seedy historyLv 79 years agoFavorite Answer
I think that the whole "b4 i cry :(" signage suggests that you will have a very difficult time hanging in here with this entire situation with a man who has a son and a woman who is close to his family.
You live with your mother. He is an adult man who has been in the military and has a family.
You panicked at his call. You even called the police and the hospitals because he didn't answer his phone which he likely turned off because you were calling it constantly while he was trying to talk to the mother of his son. The level of panic and need to hear from him that resulted in you calling him a million times is extremely over the top. Stalker like actually. Why would he answer on the 10,000th time but not the 600th time? Seriously. What were you thinking? The phone is either broken or not.
Yes. I understand you being upset. However I also think that you are in over your head and he clearly is thinking that figuring out how to deal with his son is more important to him than dropping everything to rush to your side. And, frankly, his priorities are in the right place.
Do you want to be a mother to his son? A daughter to his parents? His wife? Or a demanding girlfriend? I don't think you are wrong. I just think that pushing this topic this way is putting yourself first and there are a lot of other issues he needs to deal with.
- Anonymous9 years ago
Why don't non-white kids have parents? They seem to only have babymamas/daddys
