tina marie

about 2 weeks ago i got into a fight with my boyfriend about him and his mom kissing on the lips. his mom snatched the phone from him and cussed me out. since then i have not been back to his house (unfortunately she moved in with him) and i am not comfortable being so far away from my place (dorm) if something were to happen (example: me and her get into an argument- i cant say that he would defend/protect me against his mom. its his mom)

to make a long story short:

today he really wanted me to come over. i said no so he left my dorm angry and she texted me "This is mom, ____ really wanted you to come over. if your reasoning is b/c u think im upset squash that. i do love you, you've become my child, but i wont put up with filth or foolishness. if possible please come over.

now that she has "apologized" (if you can call that an apology) its like she's the bigger person and im being petty. he expects me to just get up and run back go over there. i feel like why go somewhere when i know that someone ive had problems with is there? and not only is she there, she lives there. that is there space not mine. i am the outsider. i would be more inclined to go over there had she not said " but i wont put up with filth or foolishness"

he says im not compromising, how can you "apologize" and invite someone over but then tell them what you're not gonna put up with this or that? i feel like she doesn't have to put up with me at all b/c i have a place to stay (the dorms) and he can come visit/stay there. he doesn't understand how i feel like i have to walk on eggshells, like she's laid down her rules and im her child (its not even her house).

My boyfriend of 6 months has this female "bestfriend" that's he's known for 8 years. I don't want to interfere with his friendship, but some of the things that they do/say worry me. Here's what's happened:

She would text him constantly if he doesn't reply right away

He asked her to come see him while he was at work (he wanted her to bring him something)

She asks him if he misses her and he says yes (he deleted the msg thread so I wouldn't see the text and suspect anything which just made me suspect more)

They hang out while I'm at work

He's offered to introduce me to her and I declined because people nowadays are so trifling that they will introduce you to their other person. He's said he's known here since he was 15 and she's married and even has a daughter his age. Marriage has never stopped a cheater. I just don't know what to do.

A while got he got pulled over for failing to yield at a stop sign and learned that he was driving on a suspended license He Was told that if he agreed to take a traffic school course his license would be reinstated. He paid to get his license reinstated and was later sent a letter for traffic school.

Tonight, He was pulled over and learned that there was a warrant for his arrest for failing to appear in court for driving on a suspended license even though he was told he wouldn’t have to go to court, just go to traffic school. Could Someone tell me what happens next? I'm So confused.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v5HpK7acDSw&feature...

ive know my bestie for almost 4 years and today she brings up how she kissed me a year ago and she wants to finish what she started. she also said she wants to date me. While girls are cute; I love guys-everything about them- I want a man. She says I'm always there for her, I listen to her, understand her, we know everything about each other, and thats why we would be the perfect couple. That may be true but I dont think I can do that. I just really love men. eventually she would want to tell everyone but I'm not really into girls and my family doesnt accept that (At the end of the day wat they think doesnt matter but in the same you want to please your family and she's not they "guy" you'd bring home to mama). Nor would I want to hurt her, by keeping a secret. Im 18, almost 19, in college, 2nd year. She's 18, almost 19, has to finish high-school if that matters.

ive know my bestie for almost 4 years and today she brings up how she kissed me a year ago and she wants to finish what she started. she also said she wants to date me. While girls are cute; I love guys-everything about them- I want a man. She says I'm always there for her, I listen to her, understand her, we know everything about each other, and thats why we would be the perfect couple. That may be true but I dont think I can do that. I just really love men. eventually would want to tell everyone but I'm not really into girls and my family doesnt accept that (At the end of the day wat they think doesnt matter but in the same you want to please your family and she's not they "guy" you'd bring home to mama). Nor would I want to hurt her, by keeping a secret. Im 18, almost 19, in college, 2nd year. She's 18, almost 19, has to finish high-school if that matters.

that when she constantly wants to talk about her boyfriend "Mike" it makes me sad, depressed and lonely? My boyfriend passed away at the end of January. We had some very good times, despite his lying and cheating, which I didn't find out about it until after he passed away. My luck with guys after him has been VERY bad and she CONSTANTLY wants to talk about her boyfriend. "Mike does this" "Mike does that" "We're gonna do-" Its like word vomit-just keeps coming up. I'm okay during the day; I really don't think about my bf that died (or any guy for that matter) and she comes along and makes the day hard like I'm holding back tears. -_-

He's going back to his home-state on May 12th. Today, we were just hanging out and I was on facebook and I noticed 3 of my friends had birthdays. She starts this wining fit about how he won't be here for his birthday (May 21st ). It happens every time you mention anything-water,tv,dirt,etc. I have to cheer her up 4 or 5 times a day-he hasn't even left. I can only imagine what she will be like when he leaves! She's going to spend the summer with him after classes end June 14th. I can't deal with her wining for a month.

How can I tell her that she's annoying me and making me sad/lonely/depressed without hurting her feelings?

*we're in college & they have been together for eight months, if that matters.

that when my bestfriend constantly wants to talk about her boyfriend "Mike" it makes me sad, depressed and lonely? My boyfriend passed away at the end of January. We had some very good times, despite his lying and cheating, which I didn't find out about it until after he passed away. My luck with guys after him has been VERY bad and she CONSTANTLY wants to talk about her boyfriend. "Mike does this" "Mike does that" "We're gonna do-" Its like word vomit-just keeps coming up. I'm okay during the day; I really don't think about my bf that died (or any guy for that matter) and she comes along and makes the day hard like I'm holding back tears. -_-

He's going back to his home-state on May 12th. Today, we were just hanging out and I was on facebook and I noticed 3 of my friends had birthdays. She starts this wining fit about how he won't be here for his birthday (May 21st ). It happens every time you mention anything-water,tv,dirt,etc. I have to cheer her up 4 or 5 times a day-he hasn't even left. I can only imagine what she will be like when he leaves! She's going to spend the summer with him after classes end June 14th. I can't deal with her wining for a month.

How can I tell her that she's annoying me and making me sad/lonely/depressed without hurting her feelings?

*we're in college & they have been together for eight months, if that matters.

that when she constantly wants to talk to her bf makes me kinda depressed and lonely? My bf passed away at the end of January. We had some very good times, despite his lying and cheating, which I didn't find out about it until after he passed away. My luck with guys after him has been very bad and she constantly wants to talk about her boyfriend. "[Mike] does this" "Mike does that" "We're gonna do-" Its like word vomit-just keeps coming up.

Today, we were just hanging out and I was on facebook and I noticed 3 of my friends had birthdays. She starts this wining fit about how he wont be here for his bday (May 21st ). I have to cheer her up 4 or 5 times a day and he hasnt even left! I can only imagine what she will be like when he leaves! He's going back to his home-state on May 12th. She's going to spend the summer with him after classes end June 14th. I cant deal with her winning for a month.

How can I hint to her that she's annoying me and making me sad without hurting her feelings?

im in college and just moved on campus. (long story but my i moved out with my bf, we had a fight, i left him and then he died, so i moved on campus.) the night i got settled in i asked my 3 "friends" if there was ANY guy(s) that were off limits. im friendly and flirty...and guys dont usually tell you if they have a gf or they are talking to someone (esp if they think they can get some more) the girls all told me nope, nobody. the next night they had a party and i got off work and was like i'll go, let everyone know im here, meet some new people (try to take my mind of my deceased bf) i was dancing with this guy (we had a class together back in oct) and the 3 friends walk in and girl A is like im bout to go off! i had no clue as to why (im a lil tipsy havin a little fun nothing major) then her friend girl B is like get up i asked why and she said thats her crush! once she said crush i was like to hell with her this is college who gets mad over a crush. obviously, he didnt want her like that (or didnt wanna dance with her). ever since then they all have ignored me and have been childish. im so over him he was so 5 weekends ago.... and she (they) cant seem to let it go. the guy is back with his gf! so its not like i married him!

now i have a meeting with the girl that had the crush on the guy and the buildings Resident Manager.

my questions are:

-am i wrong? the night b4 i asked them the girl that liked him included they all said no and then said are ya'll sure b/c i didnt want drama

-should i dress up for the meeting or just wear regular clothes?

*i know how to spell/type its just late and im just mad. its over something so stupid

my ex bf had a life insurance policy and he died sun. my mom thinks all the money is going to his wife (they were in the process of getting a divorce).

here's our convo:

him (driving in rain, almost goes off road)

me: dont kill us or wreck your car

him: im not but that is $50,000 baby we broke

me: aint gone do me no go it goes directly to your WIFE

him: no it goes into a trust fund for junior (he's 1)

me: she can still access it

him: no she cant. he cant even touch it until he's 18.

.....

so can his wife access that money? (not that i want or need the money, im just asking. my mom always thinks she's right)

My bf, who just got out of the Navy to get custody of his son, is going through it with his babymama. He has to stay 500 ft away from her. The problem is that she lives within 500 ft of his whole family, his mom, grandmother (where he is staying, meaning he couldn't go home last night.), and his cousins. I had ONE missed call from him and a voicemail message that said call him back asap. I called him a million times, the county jail and hospitals. He finally calls me back and tells me what happened and I said so where are you at? and he said at his ex's house.

I understand that he called and I didn't answer. He only called once. He knows where I live at, and he has a car. He could have came and knocked (my mom would have let him stay here). (I'm pretty sure) he rode past my street to get to his ex's house. I'm kinda upset at myself for not answering, but then again, it seems like he didn't even try to contact me. If something is seriously wrong, I keep calling until I get an answer, and if I had a car, and I could go to the persons' house, I would.

So, do you think I have the right to be a little upset? If your bf/gf did that would you be mad?

My bf, who just got out of the Navy to get custody of his son, is going through it with his babymama. He has to stay 500 ft away from her. The problem is that she lives within 500 ft of his whole family, his mom, grandmother (where he is staying, meaning he couldn't go home last night.), and his cousins. I had ONE missed call from him and a voicemail message that said call him back asap. I called him a million times, the county jail and hospitals. He finally calls me back and tells me what happened and I said so where are you at? and he said at his ex's house.

I understand that he called and I didn't answer. He only called once. He knows where I live at, and he has a car. He could have came and knocked (my mom would have let him stay here). (I'm pretty sure) he rode past my street to get to his ex's house. I'm kinda upset at myself for not answering, but then again, it seems like he didn't even try to contact me. If something is seriously wrong, I keep calling until I get an answer, and if I had a car, and I could go to the persons' house, I would.

So, do you think I have the right to be a little upset? If your bf/gf did that would you be mad?

okayy last week my boyfriend of 1 month told me his ex wife is 3 months pregnant with possibly their 2nd child. nine time out of ten, this baby is his. he told me 3 months ago he had sex with her, and poof! she is now 3 months pregnant

im 18 working and going to school, he's 22, taking a break from the navy to sort out custody of his first child, and has to potentially worry about a 2nd. i dont mind his kids, someone who wasnt my real dad took care of me- its his ex-wife.

he told me she was such a horrible person for being lazy, by not getting a job, or going to school (she wanted the benifits of being an navy wife, but didnt want to work or go to school or move with him to raise their family) and cheating on him with one of his bestfriends and almost giving him an STD and then he goes and sleeps with her again after they're divorced?

so ladies, what would you do? i've gotten over the hurting part. im trying to be realistic, but i cant help but imagine a drama filled future due to his ex wife / baby mama not wanting to let him go.

*he didnt cheat on me, they slept together before me and him got together.

okayy last week my boyfriend of 1 month told me his ex wife is 3 months pregnant with possibly their 2nd child. nine time out of ten, this baby is his. he told me 3 months ago he had sex with her, and poof! she is now 3 months pregnant

im 18 working and going to school, he's 22, taking a break from the navy to sort out custody of his first child, and has to potentially worry about a 2nd. i dont mind his kids, someone who wasnt my real dad took care of me- its his ex-wife. he told me she was such a horrible person for being lazy, by not getting a job, or going to school (she wanted the benifits of being an navy wife, but didnt want to work or go to school or move with him to raise thier family) and cheating on him with one of his bestfriends and almost giving him an STD and then he goes and sleeps with her again after they're divorced?

so ladies, what would you do? i've gotten over the hurting part. im trying to be realistic, but i cant help but imagine a horrible drama-filled future due to his ex wife/baby mama not wanting to let him go.

i participated in rough "sex" and now sex is really painful when it first starts i also bleed

i can touch where it hurts inside me but i dont know why or what it may be

has anyone went thru this?

i participated in rough sex and now sex is really painful when it first starts i also bleed

i can touch where it hurts but i dont know why or what it may be

has anyone went thru this? what was your diagnosis?

was due to come on my period on the 25th. i took a pregnancy test on the 28th and it was negative. its now the 30th and i havent came one. im kinda scared. i dont feel pregnant. wat should i do? im kinda stressed between college (this week i have to take a final) and working. im trying hard not to stress the pregnancy test gave me some relief but since i havent came on yet im still scared some months i do skip for no reason.

what should i do? someone please help me!

i was due to come on my period on the 25th. i took a pregnancy test on the 28th and it was negative. its now the 30th and i havent came one. im kinda scared. i dont feel pregnant. wat should i do? im kinda stressed between college (this week i have to take a final) and working. im trying hard not to stress the pregnancy test gave me some relief but since i havent came on yet im still scared some months i do skip for no reason.

what should i do? someone please help me!

okay. my last period was august 22nd && it lasted four days

on the 8th of september me and my boyfriend had sex but i really didnt want to

its the 26th i was due to come on my period yesterday (but sometimes its late)

im 17 in college && working so im like really stressed i have finals this week too

a counselor said that could be why its late, but the weird thing is im not having any PMS syptoms

like i did get my usual acne break out but normally id have cramps and fatigue (even tho im always tired)

i feel like myself- i dont feel pregnant but idk im really scared

what do you think? could i be pregnant? (he used a condom; im not on bc)