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why feel like this??????

I have just come out of a years relationship with my ex boyfriend we broke up a few weeks ago just over me not trusting him for to long, when really my ex was so honest it was just me been paranoid. I have tried to move on and meet up with different men to just take that heart pain away and they have been ok but they are the type of men that dont seem to want to speak to you all the time, and they seem like they have other women, and they only contact you when they want to. Why are all men like this, i really dont like it they all like sex, money, drugs &women. Why cant i find a decent man thats going to love me and treat me right and not be like the rest of the men. I feel so lonely because all my friends seem happily and settled down. Why cant i?

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  • 9 years ago
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    Forgive me for saying this but it sounds to me like you still like your ex and still want to be with him and maybe that is what is holding you back from finding the right guy. Trust me when I say that not all guys only like sex, money, drugs, or women. Usually, the right guy is a guy that is right in front of you but you just don't see him.. You just need to open your eyes and see him. Also, as much as we all love fairy tales, no relationship just magically happens. We have to look for the perfect one and when we find them, we just have to hold on for dear life. All you have to do is wait and hope and your dream guy will come to you in time. I know it sounds cliche as hell but this one is one of the few that are actually right. I hope I helped at least a little! Good luck! :)

    Source(s): Common sense and a little thought
  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Keep looking. NEVER stop looking. They ARE out there

  • Ty
    Lv 5
    9 years ago

    Well... I'm a decent person and treat ppl right, there has to be more ppl like me in the world :P you just have to look harder. If I may make a suggestion I would look into the shy ppl or not "out there", they might be your best bet.

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