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? asked in Pregnancy & ParentingTeen & Preteen · 9 years ago

Im pregnant how I tell my parents :/?

My boyfriend had sex with me now I don know what to do I missed my Period and I can't tell them I'm only 13 so Im confused HELP

Update:

I've had my period since I was 9 so I know it's settled and I went to the school nurse and she told me to quit. Few months just to make sure...I've been hungier and sick an headaches.

Update 2:

poo I can't type Well the nurse told me to wait a few months because I went to her a week after my expected date for period

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  • 9 years ago
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    As hard as it will be, you need to tell your parents. You've done a grown up thing and now you have to deal with it in a grown up way. If you made the decision to do something this grown up you now have to deal with it like a grown up would- consequences suck, and maybe if you were older you would have realised that sex isn't just sex. It's complicated and it doesn't just end in the bedroom, there are other things involved. The fact you didn't use protection really worries me- you are obviously too young for sex if you don't realise it can make you pregnant! Don't believe any rumours- condoms and contraceptive pills are the best ways to protect yourself during sex. They are probably going to be angry, and possibly upset and disappointed. But in the same way all good things come to an end, so do most bad ones so their reaction won't last forever. You will just have to wait out the storm and let them help you sort it out. Do not make this mistake again.

    If you really feel you can't do this, I'd confide in a close friend- one you can really trust because if this gets out you could get a very very bad reputation, and if you're school finds out they may inform your parents. Buy a pregnancy test and make sure you are before you tell them.

    If you are pregnant, you will need to go to a family planning clinic or see a doctor immediately. This is not something you can hide or deal with later. I would advise at this stage involving your parents as it is a very difficult thing to go through alone, and your boyfriend isn't mature enough to deal with it either, but if not- get to your doctor asap by yourself. I hope you have learnt from this. Sex is only for those old enough to understand it- all of it; the necessary precautions and the consequences and issues involved.

    x

  • 9 years ago

    Ok, so you are 13. Your period may just be late because you are 13. Sometimes when we girls are young our periods don't have a set schedule. Get a pregnancy test. If you feel weird buying one from a store you go to alot, go to a store a few miles away. Make sure it is a week after your missed period and then take the test. Wait a week or two and then take the second test in the box. Make sure to follow the directions exactly. If both are positive, then you have to tell your parents, no matter how angry they get. You can't make the necessary medical decisions on your own. If both tests are negative, you are one lucky girl. Be sure to use protection each and every time you have sex or better yet, dont have sex again until you can handle the responsibility of being pregnant. Sorry this is happening to you and good luck.

  • 4 years ago

    hi! it isn't any longer some thing to sense embarrassment about, and also you shouldn't be terrified of telling your moms and dads. you should start up wearing paternity outfits round 5 weeks pregnant, to verify your toddler protection. you're mom is probable in simple terms accepting the actual incontrovertible truth that you've had kin with a boy without her understanding, and at any such mushy age. also, youngster being pregnant isn't in each and every mom's desires, so she is probable in simple terms accepting that. provide her some time, and in some weeks she will be able to be back to widespread, and she or he will be able to be excited for a clean arrival of a buddy. i'm particular. playstation : She's probable accepting the actual incontrovertible truth that she's quickly going to be a Grandma, too. ;) good success & Congratulation's on your being pregnant.

  • 9 years ago

    Well, did you use a condom or birth control? I need more details here. Have you taken a pregnancy test? How long has it been since you had sex? I wouldn't freak out about a missed period too much. I'm a virgin, but I only get my period like every 4 months or so. Give me more details! Don't freak out until you're certain.

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  • 9 years ago

    Don't listen to the people slating you, at the end of the day you've had sex and you can't turn back time.. Just come out and tell them, sit them down and tell them that your sorry,and you know it was a silly thing to do but the outcome isn't good, they will be mad but I promise they Will support you!.

    Does the father know? ,at the end of the day he's untitled to his child as much as you are, you should talk through the options with him, I.e :Keep the child and Bring it up as your own,adoption or abortion.

    Source(s): Me, I wish you all the best!
  • 9 years ago

    First things first, take a pregnancy test, if you are pregnant than you have to let your parents know... i hate to say this but you should have known the consequences or used protection... Your 13... a baby.. when i was your age i didnt even like kissing guys

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Don't tell them until you have taken a pregnancy test and you are sure. if it is for sure than you need to sit your mom down and tell her mom I have something important to tell you. I have been having sex with my boyfriend and before you say anything I know I shouldnt have but we did and now I'm pregnant! Worked for me

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    I sense a liar.

    Your past question said that you were 14 and you wanted to learn how to french kiss with a boyfriend you have been going out with for 7 months.

  • 9 years ago

    Have you taken a pregnancy test? Take one before assuming you're pregnant. Did your boyfriend wear a condom? Find out. It's perfectly normal for a girl to miss their period. My advice make your boyfriend wear a condom and take a pregnancy test.

    Source(s): I'm 17 & have a 3 year old son.
  • 9 years ago

    I'm not gonna tell you what a stupidslut you were for doing that, cause you know.

    But number one. take a pregnancy test.

    and if you are, deal with the consequences, its not like you can use the fact that you were drunk as an excuse.

    it was a dumb *** move

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