bf friend which i can't freaking stand!?

From personal experience theres really nothing. You can always try talking to her about how she doesn't invite you to hangout.

I went through the same thing and my boyfriend even bitched me out because of something that happened to her. -_- And i hated her because they were ex's and ALWAYS together EVERY TIME i saw him. But there was really nothing i could do. I even went through the plans thing too, but thankful he ditched for me. You don't want to be rude, because that's his friend, but let her know how you feel like shes excluding you or maybe even tell your boy friend and he'll squeeze your name in.

It sounds like she's excluding you because she'd prefer to spend time with your boyfriend without you there - she's probably like to date your boyfriend and if he can't see this, he's fairly dim - or, he's enjoying the attention. Not very nice for you.

I guess in fairness, just because she invites him to things doesn't mean he goes. He might ignore these invites completely. If he does accept them and go hang out with her when you are excluded, I personally wouldn't keep seeing him.

If you are his gf, you are supposed to be his fave person to spend time with. Our boyfriends will always have friends who don't like us and if they are good friends, I can understand why he might catch up with them occasionally without you - but he should be loyal to you even if you aren't there by not speaking badly of you when he's with them. If your own bf doesn't even try to show you some loyalty or ask if he can take you to these things with this random girl who doesn't sound like a bestie of his, it's kinda doomed, isn't it?

Dont hate me, but it sorta sounds like jealousy....same here with me except its my best guy friend and sometimes i get really pissed off but then i remind myself tht jealousy can turn u into a jerk. Sry if i dont exactly help out,im used to asking questions than answering them.......good luck:)