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He said the "timeing isnt right" for a baby ?
Me and this guy have been together only 3months!!! Were not even officially together but we do everything like a couple i have met all the family and everything is there except the words to say were official:S:S now i had a pregnancy false alarm...but before that he asked me my thoughts and i said i didnt want because i was too young and were not stable. He already has a child from a previous relationship. Than when I asked him what he wanted he said the timing isnt right ???? Now i dont know what does this mean is it because he is unsure about me? He has asked me for a child since i knew him that has been years llol and even now hes mentioned it but my answer is definatly no not now... so im confused if its what i said or what does its not the right timing mean, do you think that later on when were both more established ? ?
6 Answers
- 9 years agoFavorite Answer
You should talk to him and tell him how your feeling. Also, ask him to clarify about the "timing" thing. Confusion about something as big as having a baby is never healthy for a relationship. A 3 month long relationship also isn't good for having a baby.
- 9 years ago
erm, maybe it's because you have only been together for 3 months?!!! I don't know how old you are but come one, 3 months... you can hardly know everything about him. I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years and I find out new things about him everyday, and not once have we wanted a kid. Yeah, we've spoke about it but it's out of question. Furthermore, he's already got one kid. He knows what a big responsability there are!
- 9 years ago
He doesn't want to go through another kid until he's married he realized how hard t is to raise a kid with some1 you don't love. He won't have one with u unless u get married
- 9 years ago
Well maybe he hasnt got enough money ... or maybe he is frightened of his previous relationship, and how it turned out. And maybe he doesn't know that his love is certain for you
Good luck :)
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- Grampa BLv 49 years ago
It sounds like he is just telling you what he thinks you want to hear. I doubt if he is sincere about thease things.
- 9 years ago
If he hasn't given you the gf title and it's been three months then your just an option to him.
Please help?.
