Do you know a free relationship hotline?

You don't need advice. You know the truth. She has feeling for this boy, or at the very least, is not discouraging his attentions because she enjoys it, even if she doesn't return his feelings. (Even if it's the latter, that says a lot about her that she would be willing to lead someone on for her own vanity)

If it was an innocent friendship, she wouldn't be so secretive about it. You know that. And of COURSE that message you saw is a message from a boy courting her, not a platonic friend.

So, your options are to continue the relationship, knowing it's not exclusive. Even if she's not physical with this guy now, she clearly was in the past, and best case scenario, she doesn't see him in person - but the IS involved with him at least emotionally, or she wouldn't be continuing the contact.

Or, decide that dating someone whose affections are divided is not a game you want to play. Tell her that.

And yes, she may have told you that you're "the best thing that's ever been mine", but clearly that doesn't mean she's not playing the field. And if she truly DOESN'T return the feelings of this boy, then it shows that she is completely capable of playing someone to keep their affection and attentions - including you.

here are numerous reasons why a once committed relationship would degenerate to one partner asking for a divorce. how to save your marriage https://tr.im/htIzj

It could have been:

- an affair

- having been separated by a long distance for lengths of time

- conflict

- behavioral issues or psychological problems of one spouse

- even unmanaged addictions.

Whatever of these problems may be what is seen on the surface, the bottom line is that usually, barring any abuse or psychological problems that are best handled by a professional, a couple find themselves in danger of divorce when there is a loss of:

- communication,

- love

- and intimacy

in the marital relationship.

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