Should i wait or move on with my life ?

If he is getting deported, what would be the point in waiting for him? If he wants to come back here, then he is going to have to do it the legal way and that could take years and it's not even guaranteed that he will be granted citizenship. I know you say you love him and that he has helped you through many things, but you may never see this guy again. It might just be better to let him go and move on and focus on providing a good life for your children. Good luck in whatever you choose.

I think I speak for many when I say that most of us don't believe illegals are "mean". They are mostly hardworking people, but we are just being overrun with undocumented people and the expense is getting out of hand. Your boyfriend, to take it one step further, has evidently committed some crime that got him jailed, thereby going to the front of the deportation line. This does not mean he's a bad man necessarily (although you didn't mention what the crime was).

Since you have children with him, and love him very much, maybe the answer is to go to El Salvador with him when he gets deported. You and your children would remain US citizens. Is it possible that he could find a job in El Salvador and provide for your family? I've been to El Salvador, and I know a lot of miserable women, and frankly, many women would prefer to be struggling in El Salvador with a good man they love than being treated terribly in the US by a cheating idiot loser.

Is he a good man, who can provide for you there, or is this really about letting go of a man who has criminal problems even though he's nice in other ways? If the same problems would occur in ES, let him go and forget him. If not, go with him!

This question has nothing to do with marriage or divorce.

Please post in an appropriate forum.

move on, this will not resolve well for him.