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Is it possible for me to fix my relationship with my girlfriend?
We argue constantly and she breaks up with me constantly, but we have been together, not counting the break-ups, for a whole year. I don't know should I stay with her or should I keep trying to fix things? What makes matters worst is she tells me she loves me but how is it that she can tell me she love me but the next morning she can break up with me for the littlest of things? Is that truly love is love really able to bend and break that easily?
6 Answers
- 9 years agoFavorite Answer
First off, good luck:P
Next, I think it's up to you. Think about it for a little bit before you do anything major. This WILL sound a little weird, but this is what my friend brought up to me. If you can't see yourself marrying them, you should not go out with them. So if you think that it's worth it, to go through life, on and off like that, then don't break up. But if you are getting sick of it or it's getting old, break up before it gets worse. From your photo it looks like you could get another girl easily! Good luck! :)
Source(s): Me:) - 9 years ago
To be honest I was in that kinda of a relationship and once you find a person who is willing to let those small things slip and will just be grateful they have you thats real love. Think about it she's not really the kinda girl you would want to marry if you look at couples the only ones that last are the ones that have people that tolerate each other and such. Maybe she thinks she's in love with you but does;t realize she isn't it really depends what the little things are if there just because u didn't answer a text or had to cancel a date type thing its nothing and she's being way to over reactive. I personally don't see this as true love I think you could do better and deserve better you wanna feel like someones there the person ur with you gotta be willing to die for them if neither of you aren't keep looking...
- Anonymous5 years ago
As you can't change the distance thing, you gotta learn to live with it. Consider yourself lucky that you get to see each other every weekend and you have an end in sight. MANY couples in LD relationships go for months without seeing each other. The fact that she doesn't want to talk on the phone is a little disturbing. Did you guys talk on the phone a lot in the past? If not, it's probably nothing, but if it's a change in behavior, then it's a possible cause for concern. I'd give the relationship until the end of the summer and then re-evaulate if it hasn't improved when you're back together full time.
- 9 years ago
You shouldn't have to be in a relationship that is so wishy-washy. I have heard of couples working it out after breaking up once, but if she is constantly breaking up with you then this is not normal. You should find someone who is happy with you and you can have a stable relationship with. It does not sound like it would be worth it to keep going back to your current girlfriend.
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- 9 years ago
It may or may not work out. I think that if she is too picky, she is going to be annoying and will nag you constantly about little details. But it may also be that you are too hasty to do things, and so things turn out...coarse, in a way. So you should try to perfect everything, even the tiniest details, but remember, we're all human, and we all make mistakes.
The best way to mend your relationship is to confront her. Not in a rude, arrogant way, but in a soft, gentle, way. Just say something along the lines of:
"Natalie** , do you sincerely want to be with me? If you do, please explain something to me. Our relationship is up and down, and it's making me dizzy. If you want this, us, to work out, then we should just settle down. If you want to sincerely end it, then let's end it now. We can't keep getting back together after we decide to split."
Then wait for her answer, and be ready for either one.
**Natalie may or may not be her name! ** (; just a guess lol
GOOD LUCK!! (; <3
Source(s): Imma gurlllliee - 9 years ago
Honestly man I had the same situation. Constant arguing, fights, break ups, I would say that just find another one. There are so many choices in the world man and once you find the one it all goes away.