Period problems, girls please help?

Some girls wonder if their periods are normal. No two girls' periods are exactly alike. Periods can last from 2 days to a week. Some girls have very heavy periods with monthly cramps, and others have much lighter periods after the first couple of days.

It also takes a while (usually 12 to 18 months) for a girl's period to become regular after her first period. You may get your first period and then not have another for a few months. As you get older, your cycle will become more regular — usually between 21 and 34 days in length.

The amount of blood you lose during your period can vary, too. It can seem like a lot, but typically it's only about 2 tablespoons. Call the doctor if you think that you are bleeding too much or you go 3 months without getting your period.

In answer to your questions:

You can certainly see a doctor without your mother.

If the doctor decides that giving you the contraceptive pill is the best treatment for your condition, he will prescribe that for you.

Your doctor should be able to help with excess bleeding, talk it over with him/her.

Really, just tell your mom you need to go to the doctor to talk about your period. She can set up an appointment for you and she can drive you there, she doesn't have to go in with you. They will have to tell her you're on the pill because as a mother she has to know what you're putting in to your body. Only getting your period once every 2/3 months is not okay, you might not be eating enough. Heavy periods are normal, every girl is different when it comes to that.

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