Should I give him another chance?

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I've been with this guy for about a year and a half, and we we're so in love, we talked about getting married and living together and everything. Then something happened and he started acting different and he wouldn't tell me what was wrong for like, a week. Then he started backing off, and withdrawing himself from our relationship and I started questioning weather or not he wanted to be with me and eventually he told me he "didn't want us, but he couldn't leave me." Then like, a week later we got into a really bad fight and he said he was "bored" and we decided to be "friends". We didn't talk for a few days and now he's saying he wants me back and he loves me, and he won't hurt me anymore. But for the few days we didn't talk all I did was cry all day, and now my heart is telling me I love him so I should take him back, and me head is telling me to forget about him and move on. What should I do? :/

heathershaye · Accepted Answer

Well hun that is totally up to you. I can't tell you what will make you happy only you can. If it were me I would worry all the time about him getting bored with our relationship and probably ruin the relationship because i was being paranoid about it. But, if you are not like me and you wont be paranoid about it then go for it. Also, with him being bored would make me nervous about any kind of relationship with him. If he was bored and broke up with you...few those few days...did he get unbored with another girl? Those are somethings to ask yourself. I hope everything works out. Good Luck :)

Anonymous · Answer

Give him another chance, but let him know that you both need to put in the effort to spice up the relationship. It is not your fault he is bored. It happens in relationships. Love is not perfect.

Sleepy · Answer

Give him a chance. Maybe things work out for the better. And if they don't then leave him.

? · Answer

yes, give the chance, this is the humanity

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