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Sarah asked in Social SciencePsychology · 9 years ago

I don't feel my age... your thoughts?

I am a 23 y/o female. I feel like I am 30+ and it's very frustrating. I feel like I should have more accomplished in my life, and I relate better to men who are 28-33yrs old. I am single, I can't find work (yes, I've applied everywhere. In BC there are no jobs. Most young people are in the same boat), I'm going to school, I want a family, I want friends, and I want a house with pets. I'm miserable and I don't know what to do. I can't seem to find a guy who is right for me, and I'm an intelligent, funny, fun, and pretty individual, yet I'm single.

I feel like I should be older, like I said, and I can't seem to get out of this frame of mind. I'm depressed and I can't fix it with medication or help from doctors. Waiting forever to see a psychologist. I'd like some REAL answers... not bullsh!t to get your points.

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  • 9 years ago

    It sounds like you're just overanalysing yourself honestly lol but I do that A LOT too. I think it's good that you feel that way, cuz it just means that you're mature compared to your friends and you're just smart. So I'd say dont worry about it and stress yourself cuz that's not gonna get you anywhere. Just start seeing life from a positive point of view, I know it seems like a cliche but honestly just try cuz everything in this life is about psychology and motivation. So if you can put yourself in a mood like that, I'm sure you will accomplish great things in life! :)

    Source(s): Myselff
  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    You have autism. You should see a doctor immediately.

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