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I'm a really good looking guy, but I can't get any girls, wtf?
Alright, I've been told I'm a really good looking guy. Some people I have never even met have told me I could be a model. Girls, even my guy friends (in a non homosexual way) say I could be a model. Now, I know some of you will say looks aren't at all that important, but I feel like it's really starting to take a toll on my self-esteem. I'm 18 and I've never had a girlfriend, never got it in and whenever I came close...the girl would pull the friend card on me. I see these hot *** girls with these loser guys who, to be honest, aren't really that attractive, and I'm like "Gat dayum, now why can't I bag a b*tch like that?" (Obviously I'm with my friends when I talk like that, haha)
I tried settling for a "decent" girl, to some peoples standards, but even she blew me off. Well, I ended things because she no longer gave a f*ck. Anyway, my personality, I'm funny when I want to be, but I usually play the quiet mysterious guy. Just so girls get curious as to what I'm about, haha. I'm not the greatest when conversing with females, but I'm not the worst either. Also, I'm aware that the reason ugly guys get girls is because they CAN talk to girls. But, I just don't understand how!
Whenever I get together with the guys the same questions always come up (I.e. How much sex you getting? How's your girlfriend doing? Etc.) and I feel embarrassed and humiliated that I can't relate to them, so I have nothing to talk about. These guys aren't even that good looking, not trying to toot my own horn, but I'm probably the most good looking out of my group of friends. But they still get laid, now how the f*ck does that work? How does just talking to girls work for them? Any help is appreciated, thank you for your time.
14 Answers
- 9 years agoFavorite Answer
Find a mentor dude. You have the looks so once you get your game down you'll have a head start on most men. Find someone who is good with women and hang out with him. Observe how he acts around the ladies- what he says, how he treats them, etc. Make sure you like his style though because it's hard to learn from someone whose character is very different than your own.
- 9 years ago
well, I get what you mean.
I think first and foremost people want to be with people that they can relate to. maybe its one reason girls are with guys you see as "loser guys"; its simply not because they're good looking, but because they find someone they can talk to and get along well with.
think of it this way yourself, having a girl friend that simply has the looks but you cannot relate to in anyway! wouldn't that be so damn boring and awkward?
I think you just be simply yourself and get more of female friends around you to gain a prospective on how to interact with them ( if you're the type of guy that is used to deal with mostly guys most of ur life and you act accordingly) .
Be a trustworthy figure of a guy and a person that can be relied on , I think this is what it is, rather than a good looking guy.
looks may pave the way but the rest relies on your person and acts.
and btw the hey I'm a good looking catch of a guy isn't that much attractive either.
PS. I'm not labeling you to be any of the above since I don't know you, just trying to give perspective of what things might be like.
GL
- 9 years ago
Maybe it's because you're just looking to get with a girl so you can get some rather than actually looking be with a girl so you can have a relationship. Usually guys that actually talk to girls and actually listen and care get them, because they aren't so focused on just getting in their pants. Also no looks aren't everything and neither is what you have. It's about what's on the inside, not what they can offer. So maybe try getting to know a girl actually.
Source(s): I have a girlfriend, because I actually talk to her and don't focus on sex. - ?Lv 69 years ago
It must be your attitude and personality, girls don't want a mysterious person, they want to know the person they are getting in bed with, just learn to talk to girls and always keep the conversation going, asking her questions that aren't too personal but helps you get to know her, then make sure she knows you're aiming for more than friends by asking for her number or something, you gotta talk and play it off properly.
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- Anonymous9 years ago
I have no intention's of reading your reason's and question. If you are so good looking with a attitude. You wonder why no ladies have time for you. If you want to be with someone it's about her not you. Ugly guys have more respect and skills then what you have. You humiliate your self trying to be better then others. When you learn to respect others before yourself you might have a chance and grow up.
- 9 years ago
Not referring to women as b*tches might be a good start. Women can smell sleeze from a mile away. Also, the quiet & mysterious act only works to get you noticed, it takes substance to convince a woman you're worth sleeping with. Stop acting like you're entitled to pus*y, learn a little respect, and it will probably happen for you someday.
- Anonymous9 years ago
it sounds like you're a bit of a shallow douchebag, to be honest. get some substance and some confidence because what is coming across in this post is SO not attractive. no wonder the girls flee
- Anonymous9 years ago
The only logical explanation I can give you, is that maybe because you are good looking, women find you unapproachable. After all there's no point talking to you, because you will just turn them down.
- 9 years ago
Maybe its the way you talk about women honestly you just sound like a pig I wouldn't talk to no matter how hit you were if you can't give resect then you'll get none in return
- 9 years ago
cause your probably a jerk?
some girls want a boyfriend.
not a f*** buddy.
loser guys?.. no, they are guys who treat them right?
weird, just by reading this i wouldnt even bother with you.
-have a great life.