10 point question for cheaters (not gonna judge). What does this mean?

First off, this is kinda detailed. 10 points for the best answerer who obviously reads every detail before or during answering.

I have a friend who is married. She and I got into a very late night conversation once not too long ago, and in that conversation, she mentioned she has been considering cheating on her husband. He has cheated before and she forgave him, but lately she has been miserable. She told me that she was thinking of cheating with an old ex of hers, but was afraid of getting his drama back into her life.

I admitted that I have had an affair with a married woman before, and she reiterated that she doesn't want to cheat with the ex she mentioned previously, then went further to say she isn't sure she wants to cheat. The subject changed, but wandered back to her feeling lonely and missing hanging out with "the old group". (we have a circle of friends who used to hang out together, but slowly drifted apart). The conversation resolved to me suggesting we hang out sometime, to which she immediately said her husband had a meeting to go to the following day and said she'd see about coming over while he was there.

My question to you, is what do you think this means? She did not actually come over, and it was because she said she didn't feel good. But she said she wanted to sometime soon. We were in nearly constant contact for a couple of days, then that dropped off again.

Important details: she and I had a tryst one night before she got with her now-husband. Her husband cheats, and while she hasn't done so, neither of them consider it divorce territory. I would not do anything with a first-time cheater, nor one whose husband was just an innocent bystander. Heck, the guy tried to bang one of my female friends. So I would not be destroying a happy couple if I went along with this.

And people who have hateful things to say to me, go right ahead. I deserve them.