What is going on?? Does he like me as more than a friend?

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So, I met this guy about 2 months ago (but he's currently in a volunteer program so he cannot date for a few more months & is not supposed to be spending 1 on 1 time with women).  But, in the few months we've known each other, we have become very close friends. We started hanging out a lot and many times just the two of us. We were then separated for a month and he texted me a lot and always Facebook chatted me every time I got on. He has opened up a lot to me, more to me than his other friends. I definitely thought he liked me, but sometimes he's confusing. Sometimes he will turn down hanging out and there's been a friday night when he hung out with other people even though I told him I'd like to hang out. That made me think he only thought of me as a friend, but lately he joins me for all my meals & talks almost soley to me at them. He asked me what I like in guys, but then jokes about other girls (but it seems like he is almost just waiting for my response when he does). He always looks to me first when he makes jokes and one of his friends has joked about dating me and he got annoyed with him. If it's one on one time, he's more flirty and open, but when there is other's he seems more reserved. It seems like he likes me when he is with me (other have made jokes about us), but if he liked me wouldn't he always want  to hang out? and always say yes when I asked? I really like this guy, and can see myself with him.  But, we're getting a lot closer lately, so if he simply thinks of me as a friend, I need to distance myself and not get too emotionally involved.  Can someone please help me figure out what is going on with him? THANKYOU!

NatesFairy3 · Accepted Answer

He might be shy and reserve. Take your time. Talk to him more. Ask his friends. or Ask him yourself. Your a strong person. Just straight up ask him. YOU CAN DO IT!!

? · Answer

I think he def likes u. He flat out asked u what u like in other guys. He's fishing! Good sign. He may have turned u down a time or two but that doesn't mean anything. I'd just play it cool and see how it goes. He'll make a move if he likes u. Sounds like he's spending a lot of time with u and testing the water. Be urself and have fun. Guys like a challenge, they like a chase. Dont be too readily available. Let him come to u sometimes too. Let him initiate. When u accept, it's like a victory for him. Guys love that winning feeling. Good luck!!!! 

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Anonymous · Answer

thanks for answering mine too. But your situation is tough, obviously. Here is is being really open to you, more than his friends even know, which is really good. Then he turns down hanging out with you. Does he usually make an effort to keep in touch? Well personally i feel right now your good friends, but i still feel that his feelings may grow, but no need to wait for him because this may take time. Instead go out, let him get jealous lol and flow is go, haha. You know what i mean:) good luck

Jimmy · Answer

Thanks for answer ing mine I think I would say he probably likes you but not as much as u think so u should just continue to flirt lay it on thick and get him more and more interested u can ask him out aswell I. Wish some of the girls I've flirted with in the past would have asked me out instead of waiting for me to ask them out

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What is going on?? Does he like me as more than a friend?

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