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? asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 9 years ago

Friend's dad died unexpectedly, what can i do?

my best friend's dad died on saturday night, just a few minutes after i last talked to him (friend). the story that i heard sounds like it was an extremely traumatic experience for the family. i've been calling his phone all day to try and talk to him, and sent 2 text messages saying "so sorry, let me know if you need anything, call me" etc. i drove by earlier and he was sitting outside smoking a cig, but didnt see me and i didnt want to stop because his whole street was full of cars belonging to his extended family.

im worried about the kid. hes 20, doesnt have the best life ever, and this is the last thing he needs right now. should i keep trying to contact him or let him just spend time with his family until i see him on Wednesday at the wake.

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  • 9 years ago
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    let him know that you are sorry for his loss,and that you are available if there is anything he needs or if you need a friend to talk to.let that be known,and then lay back,as he has a lot to sort out.it will warm his heart that you reached out,but he needs to move at his own speed.never say i know how you feel.i'm sorry for your loss says enough.and of course,send flowers to the wake.go to the wake and let your presence be known,and then find a seat,and when he wants to talk to you he will come over.be supportive,and available.showing your concern will help him through this dark period of his life.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

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  • 9 years ago

    Bake him cookies, and do nice things for him! A little kindness goes a long way. But yes, I would wait until all his family leaves, you don't want to overcrowd him.

  • 9 years ago

    Well just hang out with him more but whatever you do don't go "If there's anything I can do call me." he might want you to fall through on that.

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