How do I get the guts to discuss where we stand?

Question

This guy and I a couple months ago decided that we were going to date. We went on one date about a month ago. I made it obvious that it was a date, put my head on his shoulder, very flirty, etc. And nothing really has happened since. It's not that he didn't call me back or anything, nothing just happened because neither of us had a chance to talk. Tomorrow I am planning on asking him where we stand. How do I get the guts to actually do that?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

This sounds ridiculous, but.....

Take a deep breath. 
Count to three. 
And blurt out the question. 


It always, ALWAYS works :)

? · Answer

I had to do this recently, it's not all that hard. When you see him, don't eat around the bush or else you won't do it, just straight out ask where you two stand, cause you deserve to know! He will probably want to know as well anyway, so it won't be to hard. Good luck!

Anonymous · Answer

Try texting the question. It is a lot less awkward that way!

M. · Answer

Just get the guts and DO it!

hello · Answer

it's better to just do it and get it done cause if you were flirting it should go smooth

Roger · Answer

be like yo.. where do we stand.. its that easy Lol dont worry about it!!

? · Answer

Just do it







- answer mine?

ivanka · Answer

just relax!!!!!!!

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