Feeling absolutely terrible after hooking up with somebody I barely know in college...help?

Your graphic details indicate you are enjoying talking about this which is a sign that you have a sexual perversion issue. If you now feel like a slut, go with it. *

Don't beat yourself up on this one. All had a fun evening and no harm done. When you meet up again make out that you just had soooo much to drink - no lie.

Don't say that you don't do that sort of thing because

1) you do

2) you loved it

3) you would just love to do it again but sober this time

4) it was fun

xxx

Hmmm....

well sweety..

realx.. calm down..

u have nothing to be ashamed of ...

u feel guilty .. shows u have some priciples and u care..

thats nice and shows the real caring and nice person you are..

well coming to ur encounter part... watever happened u liked him ..then u got

drunk and had some fun ... and i see no bad thing in that..

come on wat gives .... its was some nice time..

but never ever .. tell him abt it 2morrow..

dont bring it up and try to justify urself... why u want to justify urself..

if u say there is a slight hope .. and u can have a actual thing with the guy..

let it come outside and see .. if u both have a chemisrty or something ...

if u go and try to justify urself.. it can be akward ..

and let it go .. out of ur mind.. next time be careful..

btw .. wat kindov frnd/roomate u got there..

she is telling everyone abt that.. i honestly that is really bad..

she should have u back ..instead its like she is trashing u..

relaly bad.. i suggest u ask her to stop ...

and save ur guilt trip .. ur repention has earned ur dignity..

so clear ur mind ok..

and go back to as normal u are.. ok

hope this helps

have fun

OMG, kid! Stop beating yourself up over this. It happened. It's over. Forgive yourself. You're in college and you just learned a good lesson... go easy on the alcohol. Everyone (who is wise) eventually learns their own personal cutoff point; for me it's 2 drinks tops and I always load anything I drink, including wine, with plenty of ice cubes). Anyway, if this guy asks you out and you want to go, then you can always bring up what happened (especially if he tries to make a move on you). Just say "Hey, I drank way too much that evening and got way carried away with myself. I blame it on the alcohol and I blame it on how attractive you are. I just hope you understand that I'm feeling quite guilty over my behavior and hope you'll forgive me and understand how much I appreciate your friendship."

Again, stop hating yourself... it's all good! If you want to feel really guilty about sexual misbehavior you should have been a college student back in the 70's! Take care kid!

Everybody has more baggage in their lives than you could possibly realize. Part of looking immaculately pure, is to just keep quiet and not to talk about the terrible things that you did.

There are all kinds of people in this world...some who did horrible things but look pure, and others who are indeed pure but pretend to have been "badass" in their lives. You are only 18 now, and you are going to meet a lot of people like these throughout your life.

They key to everything, is diplomacy. You should be wise enough to decide what details to reveal, and what to keep secret. From here on, you will be judged only by what you say about yourself...and very little based on what you actually did. Welcome to adult life :).

If you are upset about it there is no reason to contact him unless you are really interested in him. There will be nothing he or you can say to make you feel better.I don't think it's that big of a deal and if you give it some time I'm sure you will also start feeling better about it. You are being way too hard on yourself.

Let it go. Part of learning and growing. You did nothing that will affect you beyond how you feel now. Acknowledge your feelings and vow to do better next time and move on. Your still the same good person you always were. Good luck!

wh0re.