My husband just told me he used to work at strip joint. ?

What kind of work does he do now? Is he a good natured, kind and decent person? If yes then you should forget about his past and honor him for what he is right now.

But if he's an indecent jerk then sorry but you can tell him "Once an @zz hole always an @zz hole".

Sweet! My husband never had a problem with me having been one, he knows it was a lousy job and knows from my values and actions now that there's no way that'll ever happen again. I had been away from it for 8 years when he met me. Ask your guy how long ago it was. Look at his actions while you're been together. if they line up then...

It's in his past. That really is something he should have told you prior to marriage though. I'd ask him if there is anything else he wants or needs to disclose, while he's at it. Nothing should be left unsaid, no matter how embarrassing it is. he is your life partner now, not then. If you have skeletons, too, out with them. Stuff like that only creates an atmosphere of distrust.

id like to tell you a story, i got divorced 2yrs ago after my divorce i started dating other people it was the best way for me to move on and i did. i dated a guu for a short period of time which was 7 months....he use to work at strip club a long time ago also as a dancer. let me tell you that most former striper men still have the same mantality that they did as when they use to work at a strip club. they still dont have any respect for woman. any man that works in a strip club, and i dont care what anybody says" are not good characters and they certainly dont cater to just one one woman. for some bad reason they leave the club and still they have no respect for women. they continue to use them, cheat on them, minipulate them and take advantage to them. i was a victim and i got rid of his *** too. they tend to pray on the weak and the women who dont have much, while some pray on the women who have a lot, alot to give them, they pray on all types. my advice to you is to be careful cuz i know that you are not going to stop seeing him.

Is he dirty? Why, are you concerned that he hasn't showered since he worked at the strip club?

No, he probably just did it to earn money he wasn't making. It was in the past and if hes admiting now then he regrets it.

No, it's a job that pays $$$ and besides it was a long time ago.

so what its in the past get him tested if you are scared nothing happens that i know of i go with my man we dont see nothing go wrong when we go find out what he all did and what went on while you are so concernd

He did it for money before you. He forgave you for ******* dudes before him and that is a worse offense if you think about it.

That was then, this is now.

How does it affect you? It doesn't. Never did.

I probably tipped his sexy self.