What's going on between us?

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Okay, this might be a little lengthy, but I'm on the verge of desperation and any help would be greatly appreciated.

Okay, so it ended up with me having the worst week of my life (school, parents, drugs, friends, death problems. Yeah. All that week). So my girlfriend (who usually texts me every day) texted me on Friday. I just really didn't feel like talking so here's what I said: "I've had the worst week of my life, and it's not your fault whatsoever, but just leave me alone for a few days." She didn't say anything so I thought she understood. Then on Tuesday i texted her back trying to you know, apologize for ignoring her. She just didin't reply back. At this point I knew something was wrong. So I texted her more, called her, and went to her house yesterday. Nothing happened. That night, i received a text saying "Don't come into my house uninvited ever again." Now this... this was like a knife stab to the heart. I knew her; she was always happy and perky and strong-willed. I don't think she would've let something as small as this come in between us, so I've been wondering if there was anything else that's been playing a role. But I was just wondering, does something like what I said on friday really make someone act like this?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

i think her reaction was because she was hurt. She expects to be there for you whenever you have problems, you cannot just shut her out, i say try talking to her, text her telling her EVERYTHING that happened to you during that week and tell her that you cannot lose her because you love her, and that you are sorry for acting the way you did. Good luck !

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In my opinion, it doesn't make sense.

You told her in the text, you were going through a very bad week and it was due to other reasons and not her, and you wanted to spend some time alone.

You could have said it in a slightly nicer way, but nevertheless its not fair of her to completely ignore you now, but maybe something else is bothering her so contact her again and ask here what the problem is, and if she has a problem she can come and present it to you. Tell her your situation from last week and how bad it was and you just wanted to sit back alone and get things straight. 

So to conclude, what you did does not warrant someone to act like that. But if you really like her, then it doesnt matter what she did, try to get back to her and see why she was hurt and explain your situation to her. And yes next time, a message with a better tone and a little more explanation will be better.

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Maybe she was hurt and felt rejected, but maybe not. Maybe some of your problems found their way to her or she's afraid that they might.  If she really cares about you she'll come around.  Give her time to cool down.  Try talking to one of her friends for more info and to let them tell her how you feel.  Maybe it will help!

Anonymous · Answer

It does sound kind of rude leave me alone you should apologize she feels rejected and shes ticked off!!  Flowers are always nice and explain your situation to her about what was going on!!!

Anonymous · Answer

if u really think that she luvs u,give her sometime to cool down or can try to talk to her to sort out things

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