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How do I handle this situation?
This might seem a little stupid to most people, but I'm a 14 year old girl, so bare with me.
My boyfriend (lets call him Bob, that's not his real name) and I have been together for about a month. Before we were together, this girl (lets call her Zebra, that's not her real name) sent him a picture of her in her bra. Ever since that, they haven't spoken, until tonight. Zebra texted Bob saying all these horrible things about me, like: I have no butt, or I'm so ugly. Zebra also said that Bob had a small "you know what" even though shes never seen it. Zebra is not saying any of these things to my face. My boyfriend Bob is telling me everything she is saying. At this point I'm furious. I'm just telling Bob how much of a *pardon my lack for a better word* b**** she is being. He is of course defending me, like a good boyfriend would do. Also I am telling my friend (lets call her Sarah, that's not her real name) everything that's going on because she is in the room with me and Sarah has to know why I want to punch a wall. I've never liked Zebra in the first place, and at this point, it seems as though I never will.
MY QUESTION TO YOU IS, how is the best and most efficient way to handle this situation?
5 Answers
- 9 years agoFavorite Answer
This girl likes to start drama, and I've seen this so many times before, I'm sick of it. She is really jealous of you, and I believe you should walk up to her a say "Please stop, why are you saying those things about me. Why do you not like me?" Well something like that. Good Luck!
- 9 years ago
To b honest, shes doin this to try to ruin your relationship and make you look as bad as possible. I'd say ignore her, thats the best way. She'll become mad that you are totally fine with it. and ur bf needs to do the same, he SHULD have no interest in her which would make it easy. Just tell him to not talk to her, and if he does, when she says something mean, tell him to depend u . EX. *zebra says* " your gf is so ugly!! shes got no butt !" ur bf culd respond likee "shes the most beautiful girl ive ever seen and shes perfect the way she is" . that would get her pissed off. So basicly , ignore her, even if it bothers u, dont show any signs. As well, dont show that you dont like her, talk to her normally, say hi. And last thing, once your bf stops giving her attention shes seeking for. she'll stop. hope this helps !! Dont let her bother you gurl ~ shes not worth it :)
- Anonymous9 years ago
Zebra is jealous of Bob's new girlfriend (you).
He rejected her, which she might have been dealing with, but now she sees him happy with another girl, and her ugly stripes are showing now. I would just let this blow over.
- ?Lv 69 years ago
I would forget Zebra, ignore her. SHE DOESN'T EXIST because you're too hott and mature to play her stupid games. Tell your boyfriend to BLOCK HER and do the same.
Source(s): Elizabeth St. Laurent - Anonymous9 years ago
Just be strong because she's a whore who is looking for a reaction.
PS. you have a boyfriend, she probably jealous because no guy can really think of her to be in a relationship.
