Should I Give My Boyfriend a Threesome? I Don't Want to But He Really Does and He'll Probably Break Up with me?

Oh ma gad gurlll! What have you gotten yourself into?! My friend had a similar boyfriend... and he wanted her to change a lot as well. Do you know WHY he wants to change you so badly? It's not because he "loves" you. It's because he wants a girlfriend that's "perfect" to show off. This ideal image of perfection is ... impossible to achieve.. He probably saw you as an innocent girl he could play around with and make you do what he wants. he is way too obsessive.

But back to the story about my friend's ex boyfriend.. When i found out what he was doing to her, i went to his house and literally beat the ******* **** out of him. I threw all the things he bought for her at him. I even backhand ***** slapped him. Yeah. Guys like that are worthless. You need to forget about him and move on, girl. Think about it, if you stay with him what else do you think he'll want you to do in the future? For your own well-being, date someone who is open to your opinions and wants!

DUMP.THIS.******.

And obviously don't agree to the threesome.. what does he see you as? a bimbo? Well.. more importantly, don't do what you don't feel comfortable with. Forget about him. Move the hell on! Like you said, you feel like a model now, right? Well then i'm sure many other guys would love to be with you, and there will be some who will TRULY care for you.

Good luck, I mean it.

Gurl please. This is not even a question. Do you hear yourself!? Are you ok in the head!? You "boyfriend" is trying to change YOU into a whole different person! Ever hear the saying " never change yourself for a guy" ever think if he stops loving you, your stuck with this whole other you that you might not even like, that maybe no other guy would like? I would dump this guy! You would be absolutly insane to have a threesome! Whats wrongbwith the both of you just having sex ?

Don't take this the wrong way, but I think you should dump that douchebag.

He sounds like a control freak, and he sounds like a narcissistic male chauvinist who isn't satisfied with you the way YOU are. Change isn't bad, but what he's asking of you is ridiculous. You sound so uncomfortable, and I feel so sorry for you.

At least stand up for yourself. I'm sure you're a strong woman, and even more so, don't strive to have unnatural sexual relations. You are obviously heterosexual, and just want to love him and have him accept you for who you are.

Best of luck, Miss.

He sounds like a jerk.

Are you only with him because you think you can't do better?

Sheesh, I really don't understand some women.

I suggest you leave the guy. He's a total tool. He's threatening to leave you because you won't fulfill his sexual desires that you are uncomfortable with.

Think about it-- will he make you do more things in the future that you're uncomfortable with and then threaten to leave you if you don't agree to do them?

I really think that if he has made you change yourself for him, you should not be with him. Looks and money alone should not be the reason for your relationship. If you do not feel comfortable with this, I definitely think you should stand up for yourself and tell him that you don't want to do this. If he does not listen, and threatens to break up with you when you don't fulfill his wishes, it is time to find a new man.

Dump his ***. I just got through the second paragraph when I thought, "Wow, this guy's a douche." If he's trying to change you and even wants you to have a threesome when he knows you aren't up to it, then he isn't worth all the worry.

Dump him and date me. jk no but seriously Dump him hes a douche and is probably cheating on you right now with that chick.

I didn't read all the crap you wrote, but doing somebody a sexual favor because they may break up with you is wrong. Also staying with somebody cause he pays for everything makes you a whore...simple as that.

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