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My best friend and I like the same guy? [10 QUICK POINTS]?
Both me and my best friend like the same guy. All of our friends knows that she likes him and is supportive of her- so am I. No one knows how I feel about him. The thing is, lately he's been flirting a lot with me, and though I try not to flirt back, I can't help but start getting feelings for him too. Yesterday while he was giving me a ride home he told me he liked me. What do I do? I really like him too, but my bestfriend is like in love with him, and I'd hate to break her heart. Thanks:)
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9 Answers
- ?Lv 79 years agoFavorite Answer
There are more men out there
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So why not just look some where else for a new bow
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- 9 years ago
Just be honest.
next time you see him tell him that your best friend is interested in him and while you yourself are interested in him. you dont want to hurt you relationship with your friend.
depending on his reaction you can try introducing him to your friend, if obviously shows that he is more interested in you then your friend than friend should be a little understanding if you two started to hang out together. you should also tell you friend what has been happening, keeping it behind your back that he likes you and your starting to like you seems far more suspicious and unfriendly than telling the open truth, as scary as that sometimes it.
if your friend gives up her interest in the guy it would then be acceptable for you to date/hang out. it would make your friend feel very awkward if you started hanging out with the guy she liked and everyone had no idea you were interested in him.
Im hoping that my answer has been useful in some way.
- 9 years ago
just stay away bestfriends will do anything to not hurt each other :) let him know about your friend...its just be loyal if your really friends with her then let her like him and you can move on to another guy...its like saying if she had a bf that liked you, you wouldnt break them up you would just let it go
- Anonymous9 years ago
I suggest you talk with your friend about him. She is your best friend and he is just some guy. Someone might get hurt and the friendship will be ruin. your friendship is more important than this kid. its up to you. good luck
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- Anonymous9 years ago
plz find out first dat he was joking of not if joking then i cant help you out but if serious then spend bit time and tell ur feelings if yes go on if no move on
- 9 years ago
To settle this, both of you should fight to the death.
Winner gets the guy, loser gets an eternity in hell.
Good luck.
- 9 years ago
i think you should be honest with your friend. nowadays it's hard to find someone you like and they like you back. especially with timing and stuff.... i think you should tell her. you would never want to miss a chance like this, if you don't do it you might regret it later on. i think your friend might understand.