My daughter is dating a married man?

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I recently found out that my 23 year old daughter is dating a married man of 40. From what I have heard, this is his second marriage, and he met his present wife when he was still in his first marriage.My daughter and this man works at the same company. I really want to write an e-mail to him, saying to stop seeing her, or else I will not only make sure that his wife finds out, but also let his work know that he is abusing his position at the company. I really want to do this, but need to know if this is a good idea or not. I am also open for suggestions of what to write to him, He is only a few years younger that myself.... Any views on this?

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Okay, I know this is not what you want to hear, but I suggest don't do anything about it. Let your daughter learn the hard way not to date 40 yr old men. Besides, it's kinda not your business anyway on who your daughter dates and who she doesn't, especially since she is 23 yrs old and should be making decisions for herself. So I suggest keep yourself out of it, and if your daughter comes to you for support, then give her the support and be there for her when everything is rough.

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You need to speak to your daughter, but if i were you i would email him or contact him and say exactly what u said. If that doesnt work I would contact his wife. Yes shes your daughter but thats wrong and as a parent we need to let our children know when they are in the wrong. If this man has done this before what makes your daughter think she is any diffrent to him. So difficult to find good men now in days.

anonomys. · Answer

My daughter is seeing a man 10 years older than her, she didn't even want to tell me, he sees her when he can. he really likes her, thye do go out and eat. he has 2 children.wife doesn't know he is doing this. says he is fil;ing after the holidays.

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She's 23. If someone told me what to do at that age id tell them to sod off and mind their own business.
She is an adult let her make her mistakes in life. Tell her you don't agree. But respect her decisions. otherwise she'll end up resenting you.

Anonymous · Answer

well if it was my daughter i would invite him over. when he came over i would be sitting in the front entry behind my big oak desk cleaning my shotgun. i would then have him call her and break it of. if he didnt i would finally get to use that grave i dug for men when my daughter hit puberty. so yeah send him a email.

Anonymous · Answer

Talk to your daughter first.  Maybe you can knock some sense into her without having to go to the guy.

2Gemi · Answer

23 shes grown she can do whatever she wants n she'll realize HERSELF that its wrong, n thts adultry since the mans not divorced.

mememe. · Answer

Maybe talk to your daughter before you talk to him, she might understand what your saying a break it off. :)

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