how do i comfort my bf who is in the army?

Your boyfriend is probably stressed out and doesn't want to spend hours trying to explain things to you about why (military terms, policies...etc) because unless you're in the military, you don't understand. He may also have gotten in trouble so that's embarrassing.

You didn't specify if you guys were in a long distance relationship or not. If you live fairly close, you can visit him frequently, give him lots of bear hugs and kisses, and just cuddle with him. If he's long distance you can try webcam talking via free Skype accounts online. That way you will be able to "see" each other. Try sending him care packages as well with comfort foods. Text him sweet messages throughout the day and making sure you tell him goodnight and good morning every day.

You definitely need to try to be more understanding though and not getting on his case about everything! You need to pick and choose your battles.

Just tell him that you love him and that you're here for him!

Maybe try sending him a care package, or a love letter or poem? Or a picture of you to look at when he's feeling down and angry/depressed. War is Hell, and you're his saving grace, he just needs to know he can count on you to be there when he gets home.

Tell him you have a surprise waiting for him when he returns! =] Make him a gift or throw him a party with all of his close family and friends? Also, be there for him when he returns (at the airport). That will be the greatest reassurance of all that you truly care for him. My boyfriend is joining the army starting this summer, so these are some things I've already considered that I know would make my boyfriend the happiest guy alive =]

Good luck to you both!!

STFU.

My parents fight, and I just want to scream that.Trust me, if you no matter what just do that, it's solved simple as that.

I'm sorry but to be honest he's probably whining.

You know those commercials of those sad, sad army guys. I don't believe it.

If you watch some of the homemade videos from them they don't do anything but a once in a million years thing.

Videos had them messing around, teasing the kids, hurting the kids, and "It gets really boring over here."

P.S. Why would you tell him how YOU feel???

What if something really hurts him, do you really think he cares about you in those times?? Pretty selfish..

Send him comfortable letters and nice poems

i think he like you only for sex, and now he had sex also 'after all this he want to go way and telling you he don't feel comfort . this is all wrong. plz be careful.

start hugging up on him

more sex?