my bf is black n my family doesnt want him ...?

Yikes nobody can really tell you, it's a tough choice but if you really feel that you can stay with this guy, not just marry him and divorce after a few years like most of marriages nowadays, and btw no matter how racist your family is, they might say they won't talk to you if you marry him, but they will eventually they'll come to terms with it

Well then I guess you need to quit being a pussy and pick.

Family- Irrational assholes who are judging someone because oh a chemical in their skin that protects them from the sun.

Boyfriend- A boy who you didn't include how long you've been dating, you say he makes you mad. You can love your right shoe, doesn't mean that will always be your shoe.

Sit down and ask your family if there's something else they don't like about him other than his race.

I don't know your family. They could just be racist BUT maybe they have a valid race neutral reason.

Have they used racial slurs about him to your face?

Ultimately, If you believe that your boyfriend truly loves you, then choose him.

BUT: If you think there is even a remote chance that he will become a cheater, then pick your family.

Even a racist family is better than no family at all......but if you have true love then that matters more.

I would say ****,my,family and be with whoever I wanna be with noone can choose who,you love nar run your life

forget the family, you can do what you want, and if they are willng to loose you because they dont like your boyfriend, then they don't deserve you

choose the boyfriend, your family is not going anywhere.

i'd ditch him,i need my family support cos he might leave me one day

How old are you?

Eat Funyuns.

Family always comes first for me, Idk.