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He sent me cruel text messages after iwouldn't give him a second chance.?

I broke up with my boyfriend..or ex bf a week ago bc i was seeing red flags ever since the beginning.. It got to a point where he would just make me feel down and self conscious constantly. What made it so hard for me to brake up with him was that he put up a front the first three months and made me believe he was a gentlemen..respectful..understanding. But it turned put to be he wasn't either... So i broke up w him the day after valentines day and he was beginning me to go back w him saying he's changed for a week and I really just needed my time considering im in school and don't need to be stressing about a relationship and just yesterday he really blew up on me after i wcouldn't give him another chance..he said real cruel stuff to me over a text .. Told me im fake..i have no manners..ugly..disgusting..i act like the devil and that i will never do better than him.. Those honestly surprised me and I felt real hurt.. What sucks is that i can't hate him.. I don't want to be w him anymore but i don't want us to hate another..i didn't text him back but today he keeps on sending me text messages saying he loves me.i have responded but should i tell him he really hurt me w those texts or just never talk to him again ?

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  • 9 years ago
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    Change your number girl, you don't deserve to be spoken to like that! Once he cannot contact you, he will have the time to calm down on his own and realise it was in own actions in the first place that made you not want to be with him, and will move on and start to change himself for the better. Maybe you will talk again one day, but for now he is not someone you want to communicate with.

  • 9 years ago

    Tell him you won't go back to him BECAUSE of the hurtful texts.

    I know what you mean about staying friends. My ex cheated on me and i'm still friendswith him. But he's also begging me to go back to him because he's changed. Even if he has, it was his decision to do what he did and i'm moving on with my life.

    Like my ex, your ex blew it when he started treating you like dirt. Just say something along the lines of how hurtful comments like that can be, especially to girls. and when he sent those abusive texts it kinda proved what a massive pig he is. Tell him you're moving on and you'd like to stay friends, but if he's gonna treat you like sh!t and not a normal person, he needs to eff off.

    He sounds like a pig! good job on breaking it with him:)

    Haha or you could go for the less aggro approach ..

    If he sends more stuff that isn't nice ignore him. He's just realising he lost an amazing person :L

    Hope this helped!!

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    You can tell him that what he said hurt you, but make sure he knows that there is no chance of the two of you getting back together. If you want tell him to stop saying I love you because he clearly does not.

    Other than that get a restraining order if he continues. Even if your relationship with him boils down to hating, its his fault, not yours. At least you tried to remain friendly.

  • 9 years ago

    My advice is to say your piece. Tell him that he hurt you, and because of his immature actions you no longer wish to be in contact with him. The relationship went south. It happens, but throwing tantrums and calling you names is no way to cope and get back with you. Let him go. Maybe he'll grow up in the meantime.

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  • 9 years ago

    Don't speak again he says one thing then shows another. Don't waste your time live your life & be happy!

  • ?
    Lv 4
    9 years ago

    he's only givin you a small taste of what life will be like if you give him another chance.. 1st. the swearing and name calling, down grading you then comes the beatings.. everything in life that upsets him, he will take it out on you.. run while you have the chance..

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Never talk to him again. What he did was really petty and inmature you dont need that bs. Consentrate on school and tell that guy to f*** off. He obviously doesnt deserve you. Every girl deserves a nice guy who doesnt make her feel like crap "love isnt suppose to hurt".

  • ?
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

    you would possibly want to easily turn them 'jokes' into ones about liverpool gamers - 'The placed up place of work have wanting to remember the stamps, that they had %. of benitex on thm and all and distinctive couldn't pick what part to spit on', in my opinion i'd spit on his face, bitter losers liverpool are

  • 9 years ago

    Guy's a ******' head case. Total loser, manipulator, waste of space. Don't buy back into his ****, you're not stupid.

  • 9 years ago

    He's not worth it. no 2nd chances for him!

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