girlfriend troubles... help!?

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This girl and I have been dating for almost a month now... but for the past week or so my girlfriend (we're both girls) has been acting really funny... and not "ha ha" funny... but she has been less talkative and seems to not want to hangout,,, this morning at school, she told my friend she was leaving the smokers pit before i came out, like trying to avoid me. I didn't bring that up to her cause im too scared to. But when i saw her later in the day she said she had just gotten to school, which was an apparent lie?
So i pulled her aside and asked her if there was anything wrong... anything at all...
and she said no, and that she was just very tired and that she was not feeling good. 
but im just not sure if that is the case though... I think she may still like her ex... even though they broke up 3 months ago? she has talked about him quite a few times, so it makes me a bit paranoid i guess (kind of annoying, lol) ... I really like this girl a lot, and don't want to lose her... I have no clue what to do... I've never been in a relationship with a girl before this one. So can anyone maybe help me out a bit? any experienced lesbians? lol

✿ Jay ✿ · Accepted Answer

Although at the moment this girl seems like the right one for you, there are plenty of wonderful gay girls out there, trust me. I don't think she's over her ex, 3 months isn't long ago at all, girls tend to take their time getting over their ex's. First girlfriends are the ones that impact our lives the most. The first girl I fell inlove with was my bestfriend (at the time). Problem was that she was straight and had a boy friend. I hated seeing them together, I was head over heels for her but was scared to tell her. After 4 years I couldn't take it any more and I literally moved out of the country, I went to live in Italy with my dad because seeing her with her boyfriend made me really unhappy, I was suicidal and thought about killing myself, that's how bad it was. We don't talk anymore and she still doesn't know the real reason of why I moved from London. I've had many girlfriends since but she still has my heart. I've tried several things to get over her but none seem to work. My first year without her was a killer year, it was like hell, I was so depressed. Then I started to go out and met loads of new people! Meeting new people is the best thing to do. It's hard and may seem impossible, I know, but I wouldn't waste my time on her if I were you, you deserve better (: One day, you'll find the right one for you, just don't rush into things and be patient, because it's true that "good things happen when you least expect them to". Good luck hun x

Anonymous · Answer

Her ex is a guy? If she still talks about him she may still have feelings for him. Not saying she does. If she's lying to you about just little things what could she lie about next. Don't take that ****. I know you like this girl and she's your first gf but they're other girls. You don't need someone that is going to lie to you... Maybe try talking to her and if that doesn't work then maybe try taking a break... I wish you the best of luck with yalls relationship (:
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