Perfect guy for my dream girl?

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Hi ladies, I am Shawn. I have several questions for you. I am in love with a girl right now and I know it. I am wondering several things. One, does height matter in a relationship? I mean I am average for my age but still got some more growth to go. Currently, I am exactly five foot seven, shot up from 5'6 to five seven over winter break and one over last summer. I am wondering what is a perfect height for a guy? I was told I would grow to five foot ten as an adult which makes me happy. I am 17 and have like 2-3 or more years of growth. I want to be the perfect height for her as in for Prom and as a husband final grad night celebration and I plan on asking her out... idk what I should do I am madly in love with her but thing is shes my ex but were pretty close. We keep looking at each other but look away, sometimes I swear shes blushing! Two, will I grow anymore at this rate? I am still a teen and in the middle of puberty, doctor says I have not had that final major growth spurt yet.. three, what are the top things a woman looks in a man for? I read that nice guys finish last and that women are more attracted to more assertive, confident, intelligent, caring and concerned guys etc, what do women really look for or are those some of the top things? Four, apparently finger length is an attraction for a women looking for a man? Like if you have long fingers or average your more likely to get married better job something to do with exposed testrone for guys in the womb in birth stage? Five, what else does a woman look in a guy for? Please I am so curious how females instincts or scouting for a mate process or senses look for a potential mate!! Its so interesting to me haha. Like for example what kind of genetics a male can be passed on to her offspring? What does all this mean omg I love females <3 I swear I am not gay I know that for a fact nothing against gays btw. Six, what does a woman look in a guy for physically? Tallness? Averageness? Strong? Six pack? Or just fit and looking good in general? Seven, what would be the perfect guy in general for a guy. The girl I am in love with is five foot five so I am happy because I want to be her future boyfriend/husband. I have so much to give to her, emotional support to anything omg I am having a euphoria right now..<3 anyway thank you for the time to read this. Just anything please I am so curious and answer the questions above pleasseeee!!!! Also, just what is the perfect guy in general for a girl? Average height as long as he is taller than her which Ill be or is it personality counts but I think when it comes to nature and offspring, genetics outweigh it etc pllsl answer <3!



Thank you,




Shawn ;) xo

sanj001 · Accepted Answer

ok so, first, you seem really sweet, just saying. second, I'm a teen too (I'm 15) so hopefully my answers will kinda help (sry if they dont)
one - height kind of matters, it usually depends on the couple. the guy i like is a few inches shorter than me, and i dont really mind that all too much, but it can be slightly awkward. id say that in general girls like guys that are taller than them. I'm about 5'7, maybe a tad bit less, i think that around 5'10 is a good height for a guy, once a guy gets like over 6'2 then i think it can get awkward. so id say anywhere between 5'9 and 6 ish is a good height for a guy
two - you're def gonna grow more! my brother is almost 19 and hes still growing, on average guys grow until theyre like 21 or so
three - well for each girl it's different. for me, i like a guy who is sweet and caring about me and other people, but isnt afraid to stand up for himself, me, and well just anyone who needs it. confidence is something that's nice in a guy, but not always a huge thing. this might sound kinda bad but girls like project guys. as in guys that they can fix. the last guy i liked was a close friend of mine and he had major confidence issues, although i dont like him that way anymore, we're still close friends and im still helping him with his confidence issues. intelligence is also something nice to have, but sometimes its cute when a guy needs your help with school. (i help the current guy i like all the time with school stuff) but he's actually pretty smart 
four - i have no idea where you got that finger length thing from, but i would like the guy i date to have bigger hands than me (mainly just cause i have kind of big mad hands and it was just be awkward to date a guy with feminine hands when mine are gross and guy-ish :P)
five - well if you want like what we want a guy to look like, personally i like a guy who's taller than me, a tan would be nice, but i dont mind pale guys, i like guys with darker hair bc mines rly dark too, but the guy i like right now is blonde, but he has rly amazing hair, so nice hair is something i look for. guys who are fairly fit are also pretty nice. 
six - i guess i kinda answered that in five
for the perfect guy, its a mix of looks and personality, its different for every girl
i hope i helped and good luck with your girl!! :)

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