Trouble reaching orgasm from intercourse?

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My boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year now, and we are starting to get frustrated and upset because i can not reach orgasm. I've been with other partners and i could not reach orgasm with them either. It's starting make my boyfriend feel as if he is not good, or that i don't enjoy it and that upsets me also. It bothers me most because he feels that way but it also bothers me that, what if i can never experience one? Please help me!

LadyMerton · Accepted Answer

did you know that 2/3 of women Do Not get orgasms by intercourse alone? 
and this came out in sex studies over 60 yrs ago?

You are Normal! your clitoris is your version of the penis- would you expect a male to get orgasms Without his Penis? of course Not!

http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/i_cant_orgasm_from_intercourse_and_its_ruining_my_relationship

http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/i_cant_orgasm_from_intercourse_and_we_cant_stop_fighting_about_it

suggest you do some reading on female sexuality

Anonymous · Answer

Wife and I had the same problem so if we were doing oral I'd get her to have an orgasm and then we would have intercourse until I had a orgasm in her.  Other times while I was in her I'd finger her colitis until she came and then she would let me finish off after she was done.  It worked out okay and we both were satisfied.  Have fun and enjoy the moment.

Anonymous · Answer

OK intercourse is not always good for us girlys. The reason being, you get internal friction but no frontal friction, unless you make him enter a little at an angle. Best to make him give you oral or an oily massage in Anne Summers they have a warming massage oil does wonders for me.

Robert · Answer

can you reach one by yourself? If so then you will need to tell him what to do to get you there.

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