Why is there no help for bladder cancer patients?

Why are there no places to help bladder cancer patients with the financial burdens. I have bladder cancer and my wife and I have been searching high and low for help. We are very quickly finding that there is plenty of help for lots of other types of cancer but none for bladder cancer. We where advised to call the American Cancer Society but they just gave us other phone numbers and said they don'

t actually help they just give more information. All the numbers they gave us amazingly told us the same they just give information not actual help. All of these places raise so much money to help people with cancer yet none of them actually help people with cancer. I called so many places and most say they only help woman and children which is good but what about me a 41 year old male. My children even asked for help from there youth group at our church just to be told they have so many fundraisers on the books for trips and mission work in Africa that they could not help. WOW where do I get help. Is there any for me or do I just wait to die. Some one please help me.