Do you have more good times, or bad times with your family?

lots of good times. almost all good times. there's the occasional argument etc. but mostly we enjoy each other's company.

My mother went through extraordinary pains to raise me, when i was a baby. she had to cook, while keeping me in her arms....coz i used to cry if i am not in her arms. i can't even imagine how hard it must have been for her. My father took me to hospital everyday in his arms, when i developed an allergic reaction. My brother watched me when i slept like my guardian angel.

But, it's a real tragedy that i can't remember a squat of all this.

For all i remember looking back, are the bad times, when my family ridiculed me, belittled me, called me stupid, etc. It's amazing how family can love a person yet make them feel so unwanted. I've never felt valued or loved.

my family has left a void that no one can fill. i've never had a positive relationship in my life....and i never will. coz i really don't know what a relationship is like!!

so undoubtedly....it's the bad times with my family.

Equal I would say. I spend most of my good times and bad times away from my family.

BQ: Bad times my extended family is full of arrogant backstabbing assholes who gang up on my immediate family and one specific cousin they consider less than them and hate on too

good times

Both. We may have some arguments once in a while but i guess its normal to a family. I just wish i can spend more time on them :-(

More good times !

Going for a trip together, eating together, visiting things together !

I don't even have a family. Kinda sucks.

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