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Dating two girls at once, just met them yesterday?
Is it wrong? here is my story I was recently in love with my best friend which is a girl and im a guy, she doesn't have any feelings for me and after chasing her for 6 months I decided I cant deal with it anymore and try my best to move on. I started talking to girls more in my classes and asked out these girls that always sit next to me and look at me when I look away(they are in separate classes) and they both said yes and gave me their numbers. I kind feel like I don't want to put all my eggs into one basket so to speak, is it ok if i date them both for awhile and choose which one I like best? or is that wrong of me to do?, I don't want to be in the position i was in with my best friend I want to be in control of my life and have multiple options but at the same time I don't want to be a cheater/player
5 Answers
- Anonymous9 years ago
Dating more than one girl at once without both girls' ok is being a cheater/player. I understand that at this time you feel confused and don't know what you want, but dating two girls at once is only going to make things worse. You will gain a reputation as a cheater/player once they find out (because they WILL find out), and then no one will want to date you. And don't just date a girl as a "transition girlfriend" (a girl that you're just dating to get over another girl), that never goes well. Girls want boyfriends that will commit, us girls absolutely HATE being used (well, doesn't everyone really?). I would tell them both that you're just not ready for a relationship right now. Tell them "you're a wonderful girl and all, but I just don't think I'm ready for a relationship at the moment." Be as nice and formal as possible.
Oh, and I just thought of this, why do you have to DATE the girls to decide which one you want? Why not stick to casual conversation and develop a friendship before you jump in to a relationship? Remember, the best way to get to know a girl is by being her friend.
Good luck with everything ;)
Source(s): My brain - Anonymous9 years ago
Dating 2 girls at once is bad. You might get caught if both girls brag about you, then the ENTIRE school thinks that you are a player. And then u"ll be sad. And the girls with slap you.
But! I would hurry up and do some back up checks on them. (Facebook, parents, what they want to be when they grow older...etc) Then talk to your guy friends about it. (Do guys even talk about girls?)
Source(s): Me. - Anonymous9 years ago
Get rid of both if you only drop one then either
1) a cat fight will break out ( through jealousy)
2) you'll get a new enemy
3) both of the above
Honest xx
Source(s): Meëèéêē twee hee! - Anonymous9 years ago
I think u need to honest with each girl. Let them make the call.
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- 9 years ago
No, thats terrible. Its still called cheating. And if they find out you wont get either one!
