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I loved my best friend but some stuff happened?
Ok heres my story, I have loved my best friend for awhile now and have been chasing after her for some time now. I've told her I loved her and wanted to be with her probably at least 30 times and she has said no she has no feeling for me and wants to date other guys all of those 30 times(over about a year). I decided I needed a break from her and didn't talk to her for 3 days. She had been dating this guy and he came over to her house and she told me that they made out and stuff but she couldn't go through with hooking up with him because she felt really bad about doing it because of how I felt. So I met with her and hung out 2 days after my break from her and she told me all this, that it was a huge mistake and that she really wants to be with me. It kind of bothers me that she told me about this other guy and all but at the same time im happy she wants to be with me and I know in the back of my brain she has told me time after time she doesn't like me and wants to be with other guys. I have no right to be upset right? because she wasn't with me and told me she didn't want to be with me. Should i just be happy we are together now
we are both 22 if it matters
3 Answers
- Anonymous9 years agoFavorite Answer
Sometimes... people want there cake and to eat it too. She knows you're always going to be there for her, and once you got mad and didnt talk to her for a couple days.. she realized you were the best thing for her. I can understand you're frustration and you did the right thing by not talking to her.. but she seems really to like you. A girl likes to see if a guy is jealous in some way. For some it makes them feel that you really do love them. I guarantee this will most likely come up later in your relationship.. The key thing to remember is to be understanding :)
Good luck!! and congrats on being together!
- 9 years ago
Yes, you should be happy that your best friend finally realized what she had all along. Everyone makes mistakes and sometimes people can't see how great the people they have are until they're gone. Your best friend realized her ex-boyfriend couldn't measure up to you; that's a compliment! Appreciate her. Hopefully she will appreciate you just as much.
- ?Lv 79 years ago
Yes if your happy but don't settle I personally consider any physical contact with anyone is not for me until I am moved on so it takes time but you should be happy why is this an issue you deserve to be.
