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Lv 7

Wanted Women who want companionship?

I am a 60 y divorced man. Most of my life women had wanted money or things for themselves, or just plain 'me, me, me', above all else. I am looking for a woman whom can live with as a best freind and companion. Some one who cares about me, and I about her. Not money or what can I get from you. I don't want to live alone, I don't care about things. I need to care about her. I want to be there for her, to offer a hug when she needs a hug, listen when she cries, be happy when she is joyful. I want her to be there for me in same way. I need a wonderful women to live with. I don't know of any dating web sites that offer this.

There have to be millions of people out there who do not want to live in the sham world of money and head games. Sex is great, but it is not the only thing for men and women to live for.

Human beings need to be needed.

Update:

I want someone to hug and someone to cuddle. That's the best part of sex. For most of our lives we sleep alone. We are alone 1/3 of the time just sleeping, perhaps 1/3 of the time doing chores alone.

Loneliness is the worst human pain. We need one another, we need to touch another person, human flesh to human flesh, skin to skin. Marriage or living togeather means that you are not alone at night. Someone is there, next to you, by choice. When I was married, I could reach out and Sandy was there. It's a lonely bed when no one is there who cares, and an awful life without another person.

I want to be there for a women, she will know that she will be thought of. She can count on me. I need her to care for me too.

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    Lv 5
    9 years ago
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    I agree! I'm 50 yrs old, I was married 21 yrs & of that time the last 12+ yrs of the marriage were Abusive & Completely Sexless. Divorced now over 2 yrs & he died the day after my 50th birthday last summer, 1 week before he would've turned 51. I now a 16 yr Born Again Virgin, yes I miss sex, but I also miss being held & cuddled. I'm disabled on SSI, Always been poor, didn't get anything out of my divorce other than what little sanity I have left. I'm 5'1" tall, 268 lbs, I know I'm no beauty, even though I have lost 100 lbs since I filed for divorce 3 yrs ago. My self esteem, self confidence, self respect took major hits from the abuse & neglect in my marriage. I myself have given up on love, from the hurt, pain & trauma of what I have been through.

    I wish you the best, good luck, take care & may God bless.

  • 9 years ago

    well said!!!!

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