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I need help, should i ask her out for a date or just leave her or somethin else? Please read details?

Mail me at

bux3six@gmail.com .

We were in the same school

for 10 years. Till 4th or 5th Standard, i didn't care but

From 6th standard i don't

know why i started liking

her. I Never talked to her.

She Never talked to me

either. When we came in 11th

standard, she moved to

some other school and now

it has been over an year

and we still haven't spoken

a word facing each other. Even on the school's annual

function she took photos of

other friends but not me.

Presently, We are friends on

facebook and the friend

request was not really a friend request as she was

unable to see my friend

request and hence i told her

to send me a friend request

and i don't know if she

really wanted to send me a friend request or not. It was

like a forced friend request

and possibly that was the

first time we "Talked" (Is it

talking Really?). And now

she has deactivated her facebook account for some

unknown reason and we

never talked after that. If

you had been in my

position what would have

you done?? Please help me and tell me

what to do...

Thank you for reading it all

and please tell me what

should i do?

She is my first and probably the last love. I Like her way too much that i don't like any other girl no matter how good she is.

Thank you from the core of my heart.

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  • 9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    wow. slow right down.

    Step 1. Find some way to contat her or find her adress and look in a phonebook.

    2. Don't be shy, just call her. Believe me it sounds like a big deal i know but it's really not

    3. Arrange to meet up sometime. I don't know how old you are so it could be over a drink/ going to the cinema (as friends) Or just going up to the reck for an hour.

    4. No dates yet. Don't let your love take you over. It's hard i know but believe me i messed up big time once and now the guy i still like thinks i'm a dope, and a wierdo. follow my advice.

    5. she might like you but the guy has to ask the girl. It's not an embarrasment if she says no, If a girl asked you or one of your friend and they/you said no what would you think?

    6. It's all about judjement but you have to ask her eventually. Judge the right time for yourself. Don't ask too late. she might end up with someone else. If she's your first i'm guessing your aroung 13-16. She'll probably only like you if your not a dope or a wierdo and your caring and kind but you've still got some mates

    Remember, the most imprortant thing really is to be yourself. If you're not you could mess up for life and if you're really good at it the girl might fall for someone who dosen't exist.

    Don't break her heart. Let her like you for who you are and remember, with the upmost importance Go for it! But think it through first.

    Hope this helped ;)

  • 9 years ago

    To be completely honest I don't think that you really love this girl especailly if you never really talked to her. I think that you just like her a lot. If you can, try to find another way to communicate with her like getting her number from someone and actually talk to her. Then you will know if you really like her and you could ask her out if you wanted to.

  • 9 years ago

    Answer your own question. you know if she wants to see you, she will. But if you think you are worth it and she is too then persistence may pay off.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    just stay confident and treat her like she is treating you she will most likely hate it and try talking and interacting with you more(; good luck hun

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  • 9 years ago

    Love her, and express it...

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