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well ive liked this guy for 3 years, and i have told him that i like him and such. but now he has a girlfriend, but thats only since like a few months back. i dont know if he feels betrayed or what but i still like himand that must mean something. i have tried to move on and get over him believe me, but i has never worked. so i dont really know what to do right now, its like im stuck between a rock and a hard place. help

Update:

did i mention that he ALWAYs almost everytime he sees me, bring up guys that ive had flings with from the past

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
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    This reminds me so much of me! Haha it is so hard to get over them honestly it is probably one of the most worst things ever and you keep thinking your never going to get over them. But you have to think that theyre are other boys out there that will do anything for you and make you feel on top of the world, and you will know when you find that boy that you will get over him. Trust me i was the same and ive met a new boy and the old one is completely out my head. Obviously you might still have something there for him and it is a special feeling, i don't feel like that now but i feel like he is more my best friend which is good. But you have to believe in yourself and get out there, because life isn't about worrying about things like this, i wasted so much time with it and you shouldnt waste a second. Cause i bet you right now if you were to be with another boy in the back of his mind he would care. This has also happened when i got a boyfriend and he was back in a flash. But if he cares or has any kind of feelings he will prove it to you somehow, or even if not now it will happen in the future definetly. You just got to be positive about it. Believe your the best and you can be happy without him and you will find someone who is truly amazing! Hope it works out for you, it is honestly horrible! Keep smiling, good things take time honey! xxx

  • 9 years ago

    If he has a girlfriend that's his sign of showing you that he doesn't care too much... Because if he did, he'd be with YOU and not her.

    If you really cannot get him out of your head, you should talk to him... Life is too short to go without saying what you want to say. Is there some way you could talk to him? Call him up or something and just let him know how you feel and get his honest opinion back. But honestly, if he has a girlfriend, I really think you should move on.

  • 9 years ago

    Wait til things go wrong with this girl and do damage repairs

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    If he's checking other girls then think you need to try giving somebody else a chance aswell

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