why do guys always use me?

Jerks are everywhere these days. You may give people too many chances. You seem like a nice girl, but know that there are times where you need to take a relationship slower and be pickier on who you want because you want someone who is actually serious about you.

If you are a leo as your name suggests then this is quite common in them.

However, I am not going to answer this based on any astrological aspects.

You are a nice human being...emotional and cool. You have the ability to attract guys and you like being in the company of guys more...

Your looks beholds the ability to impress the crowd and the way you walk and talk is special.

No! I am not trying to flatter or appreciate you however this is an honest opinion about your disposition.

However, you always bump into the wrong guy when it comes to getting serious.

Somehow you dont have the ability to see the real picture. You always like to see positive in everyone and that's why you are not able to differentiate between good boy and bad boy. The boy may be bad in everyone's eyes however you will have your own opinion to rate him (positively)...and ultimately get ditched.

Start learning the art of the real picture. Don't just believe you eyes and ears especially after the heartbreak so many times.

If you like someone...dont fall for him...give yourself sometime...watch his actions carefully...seek feedback from genuine sources...put your friends to tests without letting them know and see how faithful they are. Don't believe on anyone's promises...beware of people who are big mouth...speak a lot in self praises. Stop being emotional and sympathetic after hearing good/bad stories of guys as they know how to entrap and be fool gals emotionally.

Also stop searching for the right guy...as when the time will come you will bump into him by yourself.

until then...Chill!!

hope this helps in some way.

tc

It's possible that you're attracted to guys that are bad. I suggest talking to a psychotherapist because most likely it's been influenced from other areas of your life. This can also be seen with women who are abused by their partners (whether it's emotional, verbal, or physical) and continue to 'end up' with guys that abuse him. It's a cycle that you have to break. You should take a piece of paper and write down all the guys you've been in a relationship with and write down the similarities they share. In order to avoid ending up with these people, try and find guys that don't share these similarities. I hope that helps! Good luck!