Will any decent guy marry a woman with such background?

Wow. That's quite a story. Is this true? Is it you?

In America your story would be taken seriously by the authorities. However, you'd need proof that he's blackmailing you and the police could probably tell you what kind of proof they'd need. Then, at the same time you officially filed a case against him you could have a lawyer send him a very threatening letter demanding the return of whatever he took from you (did he take money from you?) and demanding the destruction of any videos and pictures he has of you, and threatening that if any of them every appear in public you will pursue punitive damages (money for the damage he has done) and file additional lawsuits against him. Then if he doesn't respond in a way you feel is in your best interest, you could file a suit against him.

I just realized that he's in a different country from you. That might complicate matters. I don't know. I think the most important thing is to place a threat over his head of being seriously punished if any photos of you show up anywhere on the internet ever.

In American culture, this would not make you an undesirable wife - however, you might find it hard to trust men for the next few years and that could make things difficult for you.

Being afraid of being called an idiot will not help in this situation. Please follow this story. Once there was a man who was interested in a lady. Both were living in the same village. The lady however was not interested in the man. This man tried wooing the lady for several months without success. One day, this man went to the lady's house to try talking to her once again. Then lo and behold, there was the woman lying on the ground dead. The man looked round and realized that there was no other person around. The the devil took control of him and he did the unthinkable. He had sex with the corpse. Just as he finished and was getting up from the corpse, a boy entered the house and witnessed what was going on. The man pleaded with him to keep the incident a secret and offered the boy some money.

Some months after, at a gathering, this boy misbehaved and people started reprimanding him. The boy realized the man (corpse-lover) was among those reprimanding him. Then the boy started making signs and gestures to the man (corpse-lover) that he would reveal the secret. This man became frightened. Then an idea came into his mind. He gave a knock to the boys head and said, "what is it? After all I have even slept with a corpse before."

That was how he overcame his fear of being found out.That is by exposing the secret himself.

Your single mother lady should be bold and make this issue known to all her people and maybe the police. I don't think there is any other way. She was innocent and deserves sympathy and not condemnation.

*sigh*

Okay, first off, you are not the first woman to be burnt by a guy she loved. Actually, you are not the first human to be betrayed in such a way. Sadly, it happens every day.

Biggest thing you need to know is that you are giving him all the power, still.

Okay, so there is some embarrassment here, but lady, it's 2012, get over it. Seriously. There are thousands of people, hundreds of thousands of people who's naked images are out there because of some bad judgement. Join the club.

How you present this to the cops without being ashamed? Just do it. You were lured, over the net & now are being further victimized. It's the cops job to deal with it. Especially since you were unaware of most of his recording.

I would suggest you seek counselling to learn how to deal with this & find strength.

I will also suggest that in the future, you only date people you meet in real life & then you have a better chance gauging their intent from their facial expression, body language, and tone of voice.

Of course there are men who would still love you regardless of the fact you were taken advantage of. You were a victim of a very cruel person. You have no reason for shame, embarrassment, maybe, shame no.

He should be ashamed. Somebody should send his pregnant wife's father a copy of his dirty e-mails, LOL...no, don't do that, but the thought made me smile.

Just know that you cannot go to the police until he does something like bodily harm or stalking, and even then you need proof. Have his threats been verbal, or do you have proof in writing, such as an email? Save whatever you have in writing, and document with dates and times he harasses you. Hopefully, this demented man will just go away and not act on his threats. If he does publish these nude photos, and hopefully he won't, there is not much you can do, except hold your head up high and carry on. You may be able to press charges because he has published photos that you have not given him permission for. I would make a cursory call to the police and ask for their advice.

I hope this woman kept all the emails and texts sent to her from this man, especoAlly the blackmail ones. I'd have the police charge him for extortion, which is a felony.

Just go and tell the police or someone in the district attorney's office the truth. Do not try and hide anything she did wrong - tell the TRUTH and ask for help.

They would not do it...if they wanted they would have really put it long back ..stop contacting them play ignorant ...coz if you still think of it and regret for what had happened you ll be ruining your life...and that trauma could even lead you to kill ya self..you av kids to care of ..so please away..its inside your mind ..you can do anything and everything...believe in life ..believe in your good deeds..it ll come to you some day ...untill play your role...life's beautiful ...further help ravee.g38@gmail.com