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we are pretty much just friends?

my boyfriend and i have been going out for exactly 3 weeks today. we havnt had any alone time, and he LOVES to hang out with his friends and i totally respect that! i am not clingy! the only time i get to actually see him is during lunch in our crazy 9th grade lives... we dont hug goodbye. we havnt kissed yet.. i love him so much, but i dont want to lose himm... it seems like we are just friends right? how do i move out of that stage so we can have a good relationship? thank you so much(:

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  • 9 years ago
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    Seems like you are lacking different types of interactions. You can maybe go somewhere with him, or do something that you maybe enjoy doing, or that he enjoys. If you two are doing fine, you won't lose him lol.

    Try to find time so that the two of you can do something together, and then it'll feel like more than just friends. Carnivals are soon, I know at least for me they are. So maybe you two can go there and hold hands, etc? OR, go to an amusement park if the both of you enjoy rides (I don't) haha.

    Then you'll be ready for a great relationship! Maybe you and him can interact more, as in texting and calling on the phone. :)

    Hope this helps! I gave you some good ideas! All of those ideas, I'd love to do with my girlfriend. (ex)

  • 9 years ago

    Hi, feel uncomfortable ! right? No, make ur mind be strong.

    Love is love where have no distance, age, nationality, religion or anything.

    The other name of love is Sacrifice, for this everybody not get love.

    It is the last result of understanding, caring, searing, commitment etc.

    when a good relation turn over for a long time it will be love.

    But a short time relation or love at first sight is an emotion of sex and fake.

    Try to love by mind or heart, must not by sex or beauty.

    Take care.

  • J
    Lv 6
    9 years ago

    in order to have a "dating" relationship you DO need that alone time. I think its awesome that your letting him hang out with friends but things should be a BIT different from before when you two were single. he needs to make some time for you (that doesnt mean your clingy it means your committed) that is only how you will be able to grow in your relationship and possibly get that kiss ;)

    being in the friend zone sucks when your dating.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Tell him that you wanna hang out! Communicate with him! Tell him how you feel ! And when you do hang out, do something fun! Play football, play-wrestle with him, play video games, play catch, cook dinner together, go to the movies, lay and watch the stars cute stuff like that is interesting, easy, and fun! I'm pretty sure, as soon as you guys hang out once, you'll start to hang out more!

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  • 9 years ago

    the next logical step would be to plan a day to do something together, whether its movies, walk, whatever

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