I need your opinion on what I should do.?

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Hello! I could really uses some help with what I should do. You see I met a girl a few years back and she is the most amazing most beautiful young lady I ever met she is everything I ever wanted in a girl. But she lives Utah and I live in New York...

We met on an online game called Runescape of all things haha and known each other for about 4 years we text, skype and call each other. We stopped talking as much for a while when we started dating other people for a bit but sill kept in touch over facebook I never forgot about her and no matter who I was with I always thought of her and wished it was her I never really told anyone about her. Recently after we both experienced crapy relationships with other people we started talking alot more and expressed how much we missed each other and took comfort in each other again. I really feel like she is the one It always seems like all roads lead back to her I feel like there is something special there but I dont know what to do as she is so far away. I would go to the ends of the earth and beyond if I knew she loved me. I want to tell her this but dont want to come off as a creep whos obsessed. What do you think I should do? She said she would love to meet me one day. 

Thank you for your help =)

? · Accepted Answer

Firstly you don't know properly if you love her let alone whether she loves you. The reason being you haven't had a face to face argument. 

I know it sounds harsh but until you have your first serious fight you cannot know if you are in love with them. That is when you find out, did the other person hold back because they love you or did they just rip into you all guns blazing.

That said, I'm not saying for one second what you two COULD have isn't the real thing because it could very well be, just that until you look into each others eyes what you are experiencing is the thought of being in love rather than in love itself.

Only way to really know is meet up, so get on a plane soon as you can and meet up. I really hope it all works out well for you both.

beautifulsmile · Answer

This kinda reminds me of how the girl and guy met in the book im reading... They were in the same situation, they both lived far from eachother. What ended up happening was that the guy asked the girl if she would like to come visit him during the long weekend. Maybe you guys could find sometime to visit one another in person sometime? I think that would help you take the next step in the relationship if she agrees too.

Anonymous · Answer

You don't have to be an obsessed creep to tell her you have deep feelings for her and ask her if they are reciprocated.. It's called communication. Without one of you asking the obvious question you'll dance around each other for another 4 years. Cut the crap and do it.

I&#39;m the Fireball · Answer

She's just waiting for your move! 4years is 4years and I wouldn't dare to talk to someone with that span of time which I don't barely know. Take the risk! She likes you. What are you waiting for? Give it a try! :-)

Drinky Beard · Answer

Long distance relationships never work.

but if you move to her and it fails anyway well now your stuck in utah. 

in all seriousness its a bad idea to per sue.

Anonymous · Answer

Move to Utah to be with this girl.

Scarlet · Answer

meet her first, this seems like infatuation to me, go to her and see how compatible you are in the real world then roll the dice hombre.

Katelyn · Answer

this is so cute!! maybe you guys should meet half way! I hope things work out for you.

? · Answer

hahaha the whole time i thought you guys knew each other. do NOT say i love you. schedule to meet her in person either you go there or she comes here and see where it goes from there. yes of luck. 

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Angel · Answer

Go to her young grasshopper.

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