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Virgin Guy Non Virgin Girl?
Hey guys, so as you read from the title I'm a virgin and she's not. This girl has been with 1 other guy who is her ex (she was in love with him). She doesn't feel for him anymore, yet it kind of bothers me that she has had sex with someone else. I really like this girl, you could say first stage love. I want to make love to her, but she is moving in 3 months. The problem is, is that we will probably split, and because of this she doesn't want to have sex. I totally respect her decision and I will not pressure her into anything. My problem is, is that I can get a lot of chicks, yet I chose her; knowing that we will have a time limit. But for some reason something is telling me to cut the relationship, because of this whole virgin/non virgin issue; and the fact that she doesn't want to have sex. I feel as if I'm wasting my time here.
I know emotions can't be solved with logic; but we've been together for a bit over a month. I wanted to be with her in the beginning to have someone to mess around with, and she thought I wasn't a virgin (probably also wanted to mess around with someone). On our first date we say not to fall in love, yet slowly it has started to happen. If she loves me wouldn't she want to take my cherry, like her last guy?
I really like/love her, but will not confront her about this ordeal. I wish that you guys could give me some advice.
12 Answers
- Anonymous9 years agoFavorite Answer
4Get about it! Let her move on & you stop worrying about procreation! And ppl are NOT chicks! Get u lots & get u lots of deceases while ur @it! I'm sick n tired of u ppl STILL saying it all backwards! It's all about what 'I CAN DO/GET' all about 'ME & UR EGO' who are u all really trying to empress & why? Is aids & decease impressive? Good you'll die impressing whoever wants n needs 2b impressed but not 4long,in the end EVERYONE loses! Impressed now?Thoughts of each other brings them into doing the same exact thing w/the same exact results..more decease_pain,unwanted/unneeded kids,problems over population,more means less w/this garbage. Do u want a story to tell getting laid w/her? Maybe your last one you'll ever tell,let that be on your apatite!
Last famous words_'I LEAD SOMEONES LOVE ONE & HERE I LAY!' You ppl follow the wrong sheep etc..getting it now? This is advanced so rly absorb it_it will save u so muck grief later,don't try 2b kewl,another/other won't care anyway,they will repeat & when it's all said & done_u would of added to an 0ld asss problem & not of contributed anything new nor great to human kind k? It's not all that & face it_it's how your parents brought u here & so on & so on. SEE? Everybodys doing it! AND?
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Source(s): Knowing~ MyLife~ - Anonymous8 years ago
Unless she is lacking in libido, she probably doesn't want to have sex with you for a reason.
Maybe she doesn't want invest a notch off her bedpost for someone that won't be there for her in the future?
Or maybe she doesn't love, since if she really cared and thought that she wouldn't find someone else like you ever, she'd invest in a long-distance relationship.
Or perhaps you have a little dick, and she doesn't want to waste her time with you.
All I know is that if I loved someone, I wouldn't want to waste a moment with her until she's not there anymore.
- gldjnsLv 79 years ago
If she's moving soon, and you're not in it for the long haul, why worry about having sex? If you're as inexperienced as you say, I can't imagine why you would want to pursue the sex issue. I would just be friends with her under the circumstances. You have plenty of time to experiment, but why waste time and effort in that direction with a girl who will be moving away? I imagine you are about 15 or maybe 16. There's plenty of time.
- 9 years ago
Hey, you should give her a shot, ya know? Maybe you don't need sex if you really like her. I know how it feels, I'm a guy, and sex is really captivating, especially going without it. But if it's someone like that, give it a while to decide if you really wanna end the relationship.
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- Anonymous9 years ago
You might end up having sex in a couple months. Who knows what the future brings, make the most out of today.
- 9 years ago
Then you dont really like her... you should like someone for who they are not for who they have had sex with in the past.
Its about your relationship not hers and some other guys.
- SangsoonLv 49 years ago
If she fell in love with her ex she probably still have feelings for him.You can't just get over love.
Just keep doing what you do and you will get it in ;)
Much love~
- Lady 23Lv 49 years ago
if you like her then ther is no boundaries i gave my virginity to my husband when i was 17.. and he was 27 yeah 10 years older than me experienced way much more than me but its his past im not going to bring it up it doesnt bother me he lost his virginity before me as long as he doesnt cheat..
- Anonymous9 years ago
She's a slut who doesn't know what love is, therefore you cannot make love to a loveless slut because she will take your'e heart and wipe her 'a s s' with it. Cut your loses and send that whore on her way!
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