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Please help me! Are we more than friends?

Ok, this guy I met a few months ago. He facebook chats me everyday whenever we're online, flirts with me all the time, makes plans with me every friday, and pays for my meals when we go out.. but then sometimes makes jokes about other girls & called me his best friend.

So, the question is.. why would he flirt so much if he just thought of me as his best friend? Could he just be trying to make me jealous with the other girls? Or are we really just friends?

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  • 9 years ago
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    Well I am a guy and I have a best friend who is a girl. She has a boyfriend who is my friend. We always hang out on the weekends and I always flirt with her. It is a guys first nature to flirt with a girl he hangs out with. It does not mean he likes you, he just likes you as a friend. He pays for your meals because he is a gentleman and that is what they do. He is flirting with other girls because it is his nature. Unless he really says he likes you, you two are really just friends.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Chatting with you on FB everyday and all of the other signs you listed are typical "I like you" signs from a guy. However, this might not be entirely true because I don't know how close you guys are. Before this the real question is do you like him more than a friend? The course of action you take will probably be dependent on that. Hope this helps and I'd be thankful if you could answer my question :D!

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Depends on the guy one of my guy friends flirts with most of the girls including me.

    If he just flirts with you then totally more than friends.

  • 9 years ago

    ok so he likes u but is trying to make u jealous so just calm down and try to make him jealous talking about other guys and ...and see his reaction that way u can find out if he is more then a friend or not

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  • 9 years ago

    You're just friends. Guys naturally flirt, no matter who they are talking to.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    Sounds like it could be more but he is afraid to say it. Jealous I think he could be scared of rejection.

  • 9 years ago

    stay in the friends zone.. you might feel like embaressed if he likes someone else, he might say you guys are just friends not "more" then friends, like yea............just saying. much luck HONEY, HONEY BOO BOO CHHILD! dolla make ya holla! $$$$$$

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  • 9 years ago

    He wants you.

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