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Should I contact this man who's 20 years older than me?

Hi, I'm a 15 year old girl and today at school a man who told us he was 37 or so has held a conference on Religion and Science.Anyway, that's not important.The thing is, from the moment I saw him, I realised that never had I ever connected better with a person using just eye contact.Basically, we exchanged look the whole 2-hour meeting that would last 5 to 10 seconds.I feel really attracted to him now and because he gave us his email, I've been thinking about contacting him.

The problem is, I don't know what I should tell him.The subject he held a conference on didn't interest me, so there's no way I could pretend to fancy it.

I don't know, I felt such a strong bond between us that I promised myself I would do anything possible to make him fall for me.

What should I do?Thanks a lot! :)

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  • 9 years ago
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    If you look at the all answers, you will see people telling you "No".

    Well, I don't wanna confuse you. But, I'd say "yes and no" at the same time. "Yes" contact him if you want to know him as a friend first and I also say "no" for being serious and getting attached to him.

    Bottom line is: (Yes) age difference does not matter in this life. But actually awareness of what could be wrong is more important.

    Good Luck

    Source(s): This is my humble personal experience!
  • 9 years ago

    Your 15, your still a child and he is an adult.

    Eye contact during seminars is not uncommon and he would think you were pathetic if you emailed him.

    He's 37 years old, he's old enough to be your dad and is probably married anyway.

    Get over this silly crush before you make a real fool of yourself.

    and you do realise you are probably a story he is telling his friends, a 15 year old girl making gooey eyes at him. It's hilarious to be honest.

  • 9 years ago

    I think you should not email him, If you like him then try to stay away.

    Who knows this guy might have a family and kids, do you really want to destroy his family/life.

    Your only 15 and u might have a crush on him it will soon fade when someone else comes along.

  • 9 years ago

    ok first do want him to go to jail cuase thats whats going happen if your try to be more then just a freind have of child molestation kid that bad listen he old then im pretty sure he would not go out with you one becuase your under age 2 he's in his late 30s it would not work just find some close to your age ok and dont get this man in trouble

    Source(s): me
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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    You are 15 - are you trying to ruin his life - leave this alone. you may indeed have had a connection but you are playing with fire

  • 9 years ago

    You are to young for him . Move on .

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