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Should I contact this man who's 20 years older than me?
Hi, I'm a 15 year old girl and today at school a man who told us he was 37 or so has held a conference on Religion and Science.Anyway, that's not important.The thing is, from the moment I saw him, I realised that never had I ever connected better with a person using just eye contact.Basically, we exchanged look the whole 2-hour meeting that would last 5 to 10 seconds.I feel really attracted to him now and because he gave us his email, I've been thinking about contacting him.
The problem is, I don't know what I should tell him.The subject he held a conference on didn't interest me, so there's no way I could pretend to fancy it.
I don't know, I felt such a strong bond between us that I promised myself I would do anything possible to make him fall for me.
What should I do?Thanks a lot! :)
19 Answers
- Stella BlueLv 79 years agoFavorite Answer
I understand that your hormones and such are partially responsible for how you are feeling but the truth is, if this man was to get "involved" with you, he could be charged & jailed for statutory rape and have to be on a sex offender list for the rest of his life.
It's one thing to be attracted to an older man but you have to think about the consequences that could damage you both right now. Sorry, don't mean to be a downer but give yourself some time and think about going for guys your own age. And waiting for something like that is not such a bad idea, either. For your sake if anything...good luck.
- sleepinglivLv 79 years ago
You should listen to Stella Blue, she's steering you in the right direction.
I don't mean to deflate your impressions, but as someone who has done some public speaking, I can tell you that making eye contact and connecting with one particular audience member is something the orater does to be a more effective speaker. I think you may have mistaken the mans intentions.
- GODs childLv 59 years ago
No. You too young because you not legal age. You don't know him because you just met. He could do something bad to you. Stay safe
- Anonymous9 years ago
You should try and get him out of your head, it would only cause you a lot of heart ache and him a load of trouble.
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- 9 years ago
I think you should not contact him hes is way older then you, and go out with guys your own age :)
- Anonymous9 years ago
Yes , I would , that's 22 years older.
- 9 years ago
Obviously not a good idea, not just because of age but people with that kind of profile are usually perverts.
