A complicated relationship. Suggest what you think.?

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Let me code my (boy)friend as V.
So, V and me were dating for almost 1 year and 10 months, when we both decided to take a breather from each other.
Later on, I cam to know that he was happy with the so called ''break up''. I was heart broken when he accepted that he was indeed doing better off without me. I got on to the process of getting over him. Almost 2-3 weeks later, he texts and since my feelings hadn't gone I flirted back. He proposed to get back. Soon after which he said that since he feelings came rushing he asked me to get back with him, but now he only wants to be ''friends''. I was heart broken. Now a few days ago, he told me the truth of what he felt and how he felt. He told the only reason he was acting so weird was because of the peer pressure back at his college. (We study in separate college). And when I asked him what kind of peer pressure he was unable to explain.
But i do not understand what to do? I mean, he thinks that whatever he will say I will comply with it. And to top it off, he is not making any efforts or probably I have high expectations. 
I am confused. what to do?
and yes, I still like him. But I still feel so COMPLICATED!

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He sounds very immature.  Perhaps he was missing your love/sex and companionship.  If he's college- aged, he shoudn't allow "peer pressure" to control his life.  Usually if something doesn't make sense, it's because it isn't true!  So I don't know if he was lying or just confused when he tried to justify the "peer pressure" but he really needs to grow up.  You guys invested nearly two years into a relationship which I believe is worth salvaging and blossoming!  Ask him what he wants to do, and what he expects from you, etc.  Tell him something along the lines of "We're either going to be together or not".  If he decides he wants to continue a relationship with you then great!  But if he opts to remain "friends", tell him friends is not an option, and cease all contact with him. Otherwise you're going to find yourself on an emotional rollercoaster in an "off and on again" relationship, and you don't need the headache or heartache!  Best wishes!

lattes.and.limousines · Answer

He cannot make up his mind. Leave him alone and let him do that. Otherwise he will be hot and cold and hurt you again and again. You definitely love him very much, but he isn't respectful of that. You can find someone better. So unless he comes around and loves you and cares for you and tries hard for you, leave him.

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Boo · Answer

OKay, he is having mixed emotions on how he feels with you. It happens to everyone at some point in time. You know if you realllllyyyy like him then i say try to make him want you! And if you dont realy like him anymore, then get over him and tell him. Dont lead him on if u wanna get over him. ;)

SunShine · Answer

first of all ask V to make up his mind about what he wants....make it very clear to him that he just cant keep changing his mind and hurting your feelings...once he makes up his mind then see if you still wanna be with him if yes...go for it..if not...just move on dear

Anonymous · Answer

id go for it. u all worked before

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