He doesn't believe I was a virgin?

I lost my virginity today to my boyfriend and he always went on about how much it meant to him that I would be losing it to him and that I wanted it to be him and the thought of anyone else taking it really hurt him and stuff and I've always said from the beginning that he's the only person I've done anything with. There was some rumours ages ago that I did something with an ex ex ex ex but it was a complete lie, and he heard about these rumours recently and started to doubt stuff. Now he's really doubting it because the first time I tossed him off (sorry to be crude) he said I was really good for a first time and he didn't believe I was the only one, and he said that when I gave him head as well, then he heard all these rumours, and now we've had sex and he kept asking if he was hurting me and he was a little bit but not too much for it to bother me so I just said no because it was fine, and after wards he kept asking me if I was a virgin before and then he was saying 'I don't believe you were' even though I was and told him like 10thousand times. And then I said like oh wasn't like my friends first time she had to tell him to stop it hurt her that much, and he was like 'I don't believe you were one because my friend said that when he took his girlfriends virginity she bled and then your friend it really hurt her but you didn't bleed and it didn't hurt you.' I genuinely was a virgin, but is it normal for it not to hurt and to not bleed?