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My fiance of three yrs. passed away on easter sunday?
He died in his sleep of heart failure....my question is how do i move on?he was my bestfriend my soulmate my everything.....i feel so lost and defeated with out him...how do i go on with my life?????
6 Answers
- ?Lv 49 years agoFavorite Answer
I'm so sorry for your loss.
You're never going to be able to get over him, you've just got to keep on keeping on.
Don't be afraid to mourn. Get that all out. Take a break from work and whatever else you've got going on.
Just keep your chin up, and go on with your life.
If it helps, talk to him.
Just because he's gone doesn't mean he can't hear you. He's in a better place. :D
Think happy thoughts, remember all the good times you had together and be happy that you were allowed three years together.
<3
- Anonymous9 years ago
I am sorry for your loss. You are devastated right now and should not be thinking about "moving on" give yourself time to grieve it can be weeks, months, years before you feel like getting on with your life. With that said, keep active even when you want to pull the covers over your head. Get up and move even if it is only to the front porch. Do not clean out all of his stuff just yet you will know when you are ready. Keep working at your job or going to school let your manager/teachers know what has happened; so if you need to go to the restroom for a break they will understand why you just left the room. Keep your friends and family close during this time allow them to help with "things" if they offer.
Be kind to yourself. It will take time everyone processes loss differently grief counselors help so reach out no-one knows what you are going through unless you tell them. All the best. Again I am very sorry for your loss.
- 9 years ago
I am sorry about what happened, I could never imagine losing somebody so close to me like that. Well, I lost my dad but that isn't really the same.
Now this part could make it worse, I don't think there is a way to move on. You'll always love and remember them but it is getting used to them not being there and finding somebody else when you feel ready. I know this isn't going to help now, but trying to get over something will make it worse over a period of time. Just be patient, maybe make a list of things you wanted to do with him, like take a trip somewhere, and go with a friend instead, or alone and get away for a while.
He wouldn't want you to stop living because he isn't there, so just live for now, one day you may feel a bit better about it and I hope you do. It took me about 2 years with my dad but sometimes it still hurts, I'm convinced on some days that I'll be walking somewhere and I'll see him, or he'll drive past (however silly that sounds). I just hope that you're okay and you will be okay. :)
- 9 years ago
I am really sorry...losing a loved one is probably the hardest thing on earth. Grief has many different stages, and right now you are probably still in shock. Spend as much time as you can with people who care and love you. Also there are free grief support groups that you can attend. Usually you can look them up on google by typing in your city and then "grief support groups" All the best to you dear one.
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- 9 years ago
i am very sorry for your loss. it must be hard. what i think you should do is go to a class were you talk about your close relatives or spouses passing away. it should help to get all your feelings out. and help you move on. you may be defeated but you are strong and don't feel that way.
Source(s): experiance