Am I ruining my marriage?

Like other inventions, the Internet has brought much good to the human race—but it also has brought much evil. The explosion in Internet pornography is vicious and corrupting, and is one reason why I believe parents should monitor very closely what their children are accessing on their computers.

I have a friend who says that pornography is like the slime left behind by a snail or slug, because it leaves its traces on your mind long after the original image is gone. It is one of our greatest scourges today, and it needs to be labeled for what it is: a great moral and spiritual evil.

Others may not know what you are doing in the privacy of your room—but God does, and some day you will stand before Him to give an account of the way you allowed your mind to be filled with this evil. The Bible warns, "Nothing in all creation is hidden from God's sight. Everything is uncovered and laid bare before the eyes of him to whom we must give account" (Hebrews 4:13). These are sobering words, and you should take them seriously.

But listen: God loves you, and He doesn't want you to be enslaved by your lusts. Instead, He wants to free you—and He will, if you will let Him. Jesus said, "If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed" (John 8:36). I urge you to claim this promise as your own.

Begin by confessing your sins to Christ, and asking Him to forgive you and cleanse you and fill you with His Holy Spirit. Then take practical steps to avoid temptation—by setting up anti-porn filters on your computer, for example, and moving it to a public place.

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You are not ruining your marriage and I see nothing wrong with porn. What the real issue is here is your wife's problem. I know, because I had a similar problem with my husband. All I can tell you is that this could lead to real problems and possibly a divorce, which is what I am going through right now. Please...get her some counseling for her feelings toward sex. They are not healthy views that she has and probably have something to do with her past. This does not have to do with you. Believe me, when a partner comes into the relationship with these kind of feelings, they are deep-seeded and require professional help. I beg you...don't wait. Don't let what happened to me, happen to you. Divorce is hell and it's not too late for the two of you!

If you would like to contact me more about this, please feel free. I would be happy to offer any help and support that you may need. Sandy

No you are not ruining your marriage. Your are a grown man and you can view porn if you like. She is not keeping up her end of the bargain.

I don't know...are you ruining your marriage? Sounds like you two need to step up the communication in regards to sex...