Do guys ever regret having sex?

Hi Sweety,

Although my wife and I were both virgins when we got married in our mid-twenties (no regrets on that issue), there was one intimacy incident that I regretted.

The incident happened to me before I had even gotten my first kiss. I barely knew her, but was curious. We didn't do anything except cuddle, and we didn't do anything sexual and didn't even kiss. To this very day (more than 20 years later), I still regret not getting to know her first, taking advantage of her vulnerability, and then deciding to not see her again.

Based on that experience, I know that having sex without love would never have been a positive experience for me.

Sex is like a fine pearl... i.e., it is valuable and needs to be treated with care and respect. Just like a pearl should never be trampled into the mud by pigs, you should never give your body to a horny teenage BF or anyone else who doesn't love and respect you.

Young ladies should not have sex too soon. What does “too soon” mean? Anytime two people have sex, if they are not ready to become parents and support the child that might be created... then it’s “too soon”.

Even birds take the time to build a nest before mating, getting pregnant, and raising their young. Too bad more humans don’t do that!

If a young lady decides to have sex before she can raise a child... then she's dumber than a bird.

If anyone suggests she starts having sex... she should not listen to advice given by idiots who are dumber than a bird.

Assuming that he'll use protection... keep in mind that people who claim that birth control is 100% reliable are sometimes later called "parents".

Have you seen "Teen Mom" on MTV? They're examples of what can go wrong.

The typical arguments of "I think I'm ready" or "I'm horny" or "He's horny" or "I'm embarrassed to still be a virgin" or "We love each other" or "Everyone else is doing it" or "My BF expects it" or "I don't have a Dad and I'm starved for male attention" are not reliable measurements of being emotionally prepared for sex.

Pre-marital sex is a bad idea for young ladies. Why?

- Because there are numerous other emotional and moral issues that far outweigh a few minutes of pleasure or satisfying your curiosity or trying to please a selfish & horny BF... such as love, loyalty, honesty, maturity, commitment, dignity, responsibility, mutual respect, and marriage.

- Some of the negative feelings and issues might include shame, sneaking around, guilt, abuse, being taken advantage of by a smooth player, an unwanted pregnancy, catching an STD, and heartbreak.

Being abandoned by a guy after her virginity is taken... by a guy who lied and claimed that he loved her... would not be a positive experience for any young lady.

The circumstances of an early "First Time" can have a lasting effect of how the rest of her life will unfold. Why?

- Because even if a young lady believes that she and her BF are in love... she usually subconsciously knows that odds are probably 99% against him ultimately becoming her husband... and finds out for certain when they break up.

- Because knowing that her parents probably still think that she's a virgin, and how hurt and ashamed they would feel if they knew the truth... especially her Dad if she has one.

- Because she probably has a fear of getting pregnant (there’s no such thing as "safe sex").

- Because her childhood innocence is officially gone forever... with no vows, no fanfare, no formal planning, no celebrations, no announcements, no wedding dress, no bridesmaids, no romantic hotel suite, no "just married" signs, no approval from her family, no congratulations from his family, no diamond ring for her, no gold wedding band for him, no blessings from a church pastor... and no driving off on her honeymoon into a "new life" with a loving and proud husband.

- Because losing her virginity based on nothing except the feeling "Gee, I loved him and thought I was ready..." often makes her realize that feelings are frequently not the best foundation for making wise decisions.

- Because afterwards, she will probably wish that her BF was stronger or smarter or less horny, and would have suggested to her "Hey, maybe we shouldn't do this right now..."

- Because her BF will be an unconvicted felon if she's under the legal age of consent (charge = statutory rape)

- Because if the males in her family (Dad, brother, uncle, grandpa?) found out, they would probably want to punch her BF multiple times.

- Because the loss of virginity at a young age frequently leads to multiple partners before she even becomes a legal adult.

Those are a few things for you to think about, Sweety. Good luck!

Signed, WB

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Having Sex With Guys

A guy is never sorry that he had sex with a girl on the first night. Never. He may be sorry if he got her pregnant but he wouldn't be sorry that he had had the sex. If the girl gets to clinging for him he will just get rid of her and find someone else. girls should realise that just because a guy has sex with them it doesn't mean that he even wants to see them again

I have been married for 22 years and regret every sexual experience I had before being married. My wife was pure when I met her and my past experiences still bugs her and has been an issue for her as a woman. Now that I am raising 5 kids, and teaching them abstinence, I am dreading the the day one of them ask me the question. My advice to anyone is to wait until your wedding night. Sounds archaic but what a special gift to give each other.

Yeah dude I did cause I was 14 n banged my teacher n then I got preggo and now IDK wtf im goin to do so heres some advice man.... dont do it.. EVER EVER again.

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in 75 % of cases NO

other 25 % cases are only those when a boy loves a girl till the death

yes, many differnt situations like having sex with your friends girl could be regretful if the 2 then stop being friends

Yes and for 3 different reasons

1) Sleeping with a good friend of yours. It's highly possible that it will ruin your relationship, someone usually gets hurt unless you've found your perfect match

2) Sleeping with a woman that you are not attracted to. This can happen when you're feeling down or unwanted. It will not get your self-estime back up, on the contrary

3) Sleeping with a woman that is too much into you even if she's attractive. You will sleep with her a few times until you're tired of it and you will break her heart

Actually yes. I know a guy who said sleeping around made him feel like he was just using the girls and he didn't like that.

This question is weird but the feelings of sex or attraction towards depends upon the people....

I am 16 and i regret having sex.